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- ApeRobot0
In this past year, i met 5 woman, from age 24 to 42.
All of them got abused physically or mentally, raped, beaten, threatened, left alone with children.
Mostly by boyfriends, husband, or family relatives.....i'm stunned....and ashamed to be a man.If i was in their situation, i could never trust a man anymore.
And if you're that kind of guy, check yourself, because you're a fucking asshole.- I was planning on beating my woman tonight...
Until I read your enlightening post.soundofreason - Ape, what kind of background do those men have? From countries/ religious up-ringing where women are being more disrespected?NBQ00
- https://youtu.be/INt…soundofreason
- @NBQ00 Mostly Caucasian middle class men, no specific religious beliefs.ApeRobot
- @ApeRobot
I looks like you're hanging around the wrong circles. Middle class gang here as well and don't know anyone in that situation.soundofreason - its fucked up how we treat people. Men also do get this - its not just women. Not to be insensitive just think its more of a psychological issue than gendermugwart
- Raped by brother+friend at 12, fashion photographer at 21 when modelling, and 30 drugged and raped by boss on business trip. My current...shapesalad
- ...grinds her teeth during sleeping, very anxious, panic attacks, snaps and immediately gets angry, becoming/is anorexic. Thanks guys.shapesalad
- And yes, she's middle class. tall, beautiful, used to model, intelligent, but damaged due to other men, and me, a nice guy is now left to pick up the pieces.shapesalad
- @soundofreason I had the same feeling until i met those woman. That is what surprised me.ApeRobot
- @shapesalad :(ApeRobot
- @ApeRobot
I totally understand your concern, I would be shocked as well in your situation.
However, I don't see it as a reason to be ashamed to be a man.soundofreason - you should be proud to be able to "rise about" the other cunts and help her out of this.
@shape - thats fucked up. Poor lass...mugwart - The PSA in your last sentence was so ridiculously naive it was funny (see Bill Burr).soundofreason
- PSA?mugwart
- *about is above.mugwart
- Whoever said they dont know anyone in that situation, you definately do. People tend to hide and bury those things and it's hard to talk about.shellie
- Even in an intimate relationship, people hate being looked at as damaged which is why especially women carry these things alone.shellie
- @mugwart
Public Service Announcement
"And if you're that kind of guy, check yourself, because you're a fucking asshole."soundofreason - It read like "If you're a rapist please stop raping".
Problem solved.soundofreason - oh ... no I was on the oppoiste side of this. I was abused and very neglected. I know the pain of my words and can grasp how it feels.mugwart
- i just find it hard to express myself in these limited text field boxes.mugwart
- was trying to express at least your aware of these issues and are prepared to try and heal the world/humans instead of being a cunt.mugwart
- the world is full of abuse and it needs to stop (no shit Sherlock) but I feel labelling it as gender and not psychological i feel is hindering.mugwart
- I've dated women like this, exactly as shape said, the nice guys get left picking up the pieces... it's always rough and hard to make it work out.robotron3k
- Relationships have been for a long time, who can break whom first. sorry for the mishmash of a sentence.helloeatbreathedrive
- lol robo, you're the "nice guy" in this scenario?monospaced
- ^Lolpango
- Robo is the victim in every scenarios.pango
- i'm sure you all treat the women in your lives with the same respect that you treat random strangers on the internet.imbecile
- Two ex's of mine were abused, both by close friends. One woke up and the guy was going at it, the other managed to get out of it (and they were both cops).formed
- The simple fact that people support a Pres and his chumps that joke and humiliate those that have the courage to stand up and speak says volumes about theformed
- integrity and state of the world. It shows this happens far more than us 'nice guys' ever think it could and just how many are 'ok' participating. Fucking sadformed
- seriously. who care about the nice guy. nice guys aren't the victim. just because you know someone who went through these terrible event, doesn't make you apango
- victim.pango
- oh nooose. nice guys get left picking up the pieces...
everything is about the nice guy. lolpango - and no i'm not directed at you mugwart. i completely understand bitches can get nasty as well.pango
- https://youtu.be/Sh5…pango
- If you're getting the nice guy discount on damaged goods deal with it or pay full price next time.soundofreason
- I get what your saying and agree, if you like the person then you should take them for what they are. Good and Bad but it is a lot to take and a lot to carry onmugwart
- funny video! Was a bit worse than that though ;-)mugwart
- my lady has a lot to put up with!mugwart
- @formed +1fadein11
- I was planning on beating my woman tonight...
- pinkfloyd1
Warning, run on sentence. If your friend or family is struggling for money, and possibly in debt, and you offer them money but they say it's ok, do you still bring over money or not?
- never offer family money you're not willing to set on fire.imbecile
- Based on my experience (on both giving and receiving ends) I'd say tell them to ask you if they ever really need it. Imho this is when money is best spentspl33nidoru
- all around. And imbecile is right, a lot of the time this money doesn't come back. I've always paid my debts but years down the line sometimes.spl33nidoru
- yes, I don't expect the money back as they never pay me backpinkfloyd
- it is a gift of love, just set a limit.futurefood
- yes, give them the money. then, never mention it again -- even if you see them go on a holiday at some point in the future.Gnash
- fuck it, sending moneypinkfloyd
- Gnash, my parents never took a vacationpinkfloyd
- ^ same here. mine worked non-stopGnash
- Send those money my way if they don't want your money lolpango
- I went, I tried, they denied. At least I triedpinkfloyd
- Give the money to pango, he'll pay you back. I can vouch for him.soundofreason
- he's gonna waste it on drugspinkfloyd
- Lolpango
- It will be well spent on drugs I promise.pango
- what's your paypal? I can get you pizza?pinkfloyd
- actually, nvmpinkfloyd
- Lolpango
- Awww dude! Don't keep my hopes up!pango
- shellie0
Goddamnit why do I need to put Tapatio on everything? Last night while ripping off the corner of a Tapatio packet for optimal Mariscos enjoyment, I also ripped out my fake front tooth. A lovely reminder that I wasn't very good at gymnastics.
Dentist visit is set for tomorrow at 8 am for a temporary fix and finally go ahead and pay for the final part of my implant installation and veneers so my teeth match. I hate going to the dentist but the painful part is done at least. But, I have to admit the few times this has happened, I get crazy anxiety about having a weird space where my tongue thinks a tooth should be. I barely slept last night.
- Went to search what Tapatio is... and it's already in my Search history :)Nairn
- I live for that hot sauce. https://cdn.shopify.…shellie
- Also - owowowowowowNairn
- tapatio and crab ceviche with lots of lemon is pure heaven and hellfuturefood
- it's always a toss-up between Tapatio and Cholula for me...
... and sorry about your toof :(PonyBoy - My conference calls were awkward today. I didnt turn on video and WFH, but Ts and Fs were especially hard to disguise.shellie
- bliznutty2
i've been having the worst past few days since i experienced stage fright and totally dropped the ball on my 2 lines in our puppet show this past weekend.. i seriously am totally depressed and am having the hardest time dealing with it. i don't know what happened up there, i just totally froze and went blank - i knew my lines but couldn't have told you my name if i tried.
anyway.. i wish it would just rain pianos right now :`(
- sorry to hear that. Not to make light of your situation - who are you? Jim Henderson?hotroddy
- it's Henson tsk tskdocpoz
- oh look! a puppy getting shower!
https://www.youtube.…pango - shit dude, it's it part of the craft? How to bounce back from a mistake. Sure you can pull through. Ipad + Teleprompter possible?mugwart
- Been there. I totally messed up a monologue during an improv show. It's the spotlight. It's like a lazerbeam to my brain.shellie
- Sorry. It's likely that no one noticed... feel better.notype
- 2 lines? did you rehearse?docpoz
- ^ haha you cunt ;-)mugwart
- it's a reasonable questiondocpoz
- +1 mugnotype
- yes we rehearsed several times and yes i knew my lines. i experienced stage fright - it was like a panic attack which left me frozen and unable to speak :(bliznutty
- Weed or beta blockers perhaps?_niko
- can you drink?docpoz
- shellie1
Sometimes I feel like fashion designers are having a laugh on us.
C'mon -- this $1,000 Fendi scarf is a giant pussy. Imagine someone's head coming out of that hole. And yet, I'm sure there is a line of people who would happily pay to look like an adult baby being born into an unironically cold world.
- Hehehe, come on, cocks have been a thing for a long while now... Nothing wrong with some equal representation.robotron3k
- lovely fluffy cuntsted
- much better shaved anywaysdocpoz
- id buy thatpango
- Nice for a client meetingNBQ00
- nfsw?
better not be real fur!mugwart - would real pube be any better?pango
- has to be genuine!mugwart
- I like that last sentence there. LOLnotype
- perfect for setoey
- ear muffs?utopian
- And a guy wears it ...adrok
- docpoz-2
QBN > YayHooray
- why upvote? WTFdocpoz
- Miss the old photography threads on
YH. So many skilful players.PeterPancake
- notype2
Ay, I'll be in Vancouver BC Nov 19th. Me and my mirrorless.
What's to do? Where to go? This building can't be all...
- paging pango.notype
- Sorry mate, but yes, nothing more to see there...OBBTKN
- Shit, just realized it’s going to be cold.notype
- vancouver winters are pretty mild. you'll be surrounded by mountains and ocean so plenty to see with just thatGnash
- there are a couple suspension bridges in North Vancouver. I walked around the water line near Stanley park and it was lovely. Eat dinner here! "Ask For Luigi"capn_ron
- Ask For Luigi is Italian, but modern and so damn good. Grab yourself some legal weed in Gastown and just wander and get lost.capn_ron
- Lol a studio I used to work at is right by Luigi. Never been in there tho. Seems expensive.pango
- Bring water proof light jacket. And comfy walking shoe (water proof as well). Best thing about Vancouver is all in the nature.pango
- If snow cones early you can Beach in the morning and ski at night.pango
- And food. Alot of food.pango
- If you like nature, check out Lynn valley suspension bridge and do the loop trail from there down to the falls. Lots of pretty photos to be had.monNom
- For how long?pango
- If it's sunny, rent a bike and ride along the Stanley Park seawall.monNom
- You all are getting me hype! I cant wait! There for 3 nights.notype
- Going to run, shoot and eat myself thru Vancouver. Hide your wife, hide yo kids! First real vacation in years. Heading up after spending time in Seattle.notype
- Suspension bridge sounds scary to me. Sign me up!notype
- If you've seen alter carbon. That's where they shot a scene therepango
- Gnash are you in the area too?notype
- I'm in toronto, unfortunately. I'd much rather be waking up to mountainsGnash
- and don't forget that pot is now legal in canada -- as of todayGnash
- Oh man that’s amazing! Good for you guys. Wish it’d happen down here in NY. I don’t partake but can celebrate the win by burning sage lolnotype
- Popo never crack down on personal use anyway. I've smoke with a Popo before. The real good step forward to pardon people who actually got a record for usingpango
- Check out the Curious Imaginings exhibit. https://www.vancouve…Melanie
- ^You did ethical beans? Cool.pango
- docpoz-7
Whew, almost over a virus that has kept me sleepless.
Good to know the immune system is working tip top.
- PonyBoy-9
- docpoz-5
i need to broadcast tonight.
- PhanLo2
Youtube was cabbaged there for a bit i_monk
- oey1
just hit cmd + Q instead cmd + W while checking QBN on firefox with like 20 tabs open...
I don't use history for closed sessions :-/well, here I am again!
- shellie2
Ugh I went to the dentist today and I have to go back tomorrow. As she tore into me I couldnt help but to think, "Do you hate me, bitch? You're doing too much."
Tomorrow's Agenda: Lazer tissue cutting, more pokes and OWWWs before a very long day of work. The tail end of this cosmetic overhaul (restoration from injury) isnt going to be as easy breezy as I thought.
- Wear your new scarfdrgs
- seriously, dentist must take their hate for life out on their patientsfuturefood
- but weed...weed will save youfuturefood
- Teeth gonna be dope though. Thanks for the reminder to get in the chair myself.notype
- NBQ000
What are the best sites for design news? Sites like CreativeReview, etc?
- Bennn0
Any tech wiz in here?
What would be the best choice to run Lightroom CC, Microsoft Surface GO or Samsung Galaxy Tab S4 ???The Surface GO have more RAM but the S4 have more Processor, whats the most important for photo editing, ram or processor?
- *Surface GO on the left
Tab S4 on the rightBennn - Whether you like or loathe Windows, can you imagine *working* on Android? Even Google realises how useles taht is, hence ChromeOSNairn
- Adobe Lightroom CC is what I want to use and it works on Android, iOS and WindowsBennn
- Cpu for exporting. GPU for live edit response. Ram:8gb minimumpango
- I prefer surface pro or surface bookpango
- what Nairn said. Android is great on phones but not so good on tablets hence the eventual move to ChromeOS. I would say Windows.fadein11
- +1 windows/surface Gofuturefood
- surface.sted
- thanks guysBennn
- surface but both shit for serious stuffmekk
- Yes, get the Surface ProOBBTKN
- the Pro cost too much, its just to be use as a fun/secondary sofa deviceBennn
- Surface go?pango
- Yes, a baby Surface ProBennn
- *Surface GO on the left
- inteliboy0
just wrapped a two day shoot on a fucked sore lower back... stumbled in the front door back spasming. time to pass out.
think need to go get x-rays...
this probably belongs in getting old thread.
- NBQ001
OMG!!! QBN in dark mode, finally! Thanks to this plug-in: https://www.fastcompany.com/9025…
It's available for free for Firefox & Chrome but it's $4.99 for Safari.
- Only mono would pay Apple $4.99 for an a free plug-in.utopian
- And me, because I love & use Safari as default browser.NBQ00
- seriously utopian, can you just shut the fuck up already with the apple shit?monospaced
- haha, Utopian 1 - Mono 0Nairn
- Except I don’t use safari, and utopian is a troll.monospaced
- NBQ, on the other hand, apparently did pay for it to use with Safari. That's not me.monospaced
- This was the best $5 bucks I spent in a while. The entire web has become amazing. Not just QBN.NBQ00
- He trolled you and you reacted, i doesn't really matter whether you use Safari or not ;)Nairn
- oh, so you're giving out points for being a moronic troll ... in that case, it's more like utopian 1M, mono 0monospaced
- WOW very nice Addon! THANKS!Bennn
- just playing mono, nothing but love for you. you know that!utopian
- you got your point, troll, give it upmonospaced
- I like it (the dark mode plugin, that is)Krassy
- Anyone have any concerns over the privacy notice? It says it get's all data on all websites!Vandal7
- It says "Dark Reader had never collected and will never collect any personal data, browsing history etc." https://darkreader.o…NBQ00
- cool! thnxfuturefood
- it doesnt work on every websites, still coolBennn
- lol simple local css trick, few months back i posted the version for qbn. FREE lolsted
- *uninstalled*
:)Krassy - what you think about moving this to the useful thread?api
- damn, this thing slows down my browser :-/api
- it was fun for 47 seconds. Had to uninstall after that.Krassy
- I love it, couldn't be without it anymore. Works great on like 95% websites out there. Just have to play a bit with settings and set on "filter".NBQ00
- I emailed the dev and he said he would fix some issue like embedded videos on websites that appear inverted.NBQ00
- @Vandal7 yes privacy concerns are true for this kind of things. hope browsers like firefox integrate it native, soon! safari is working on something.api