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- ApeRobot0
In this past year, i met 5 woman, from age 24 to 42.
All of them got abused physically or mentally, raped, beaten, threatened, left alone with children.
Mostly by boyfriends, husband, or family relatives.....i'm stunned....and ashamed to be a man.If i was in their situation, i could never trust a man anymore.
And if you're that kind of guy, check yourself, because you're a fucking asshole.- I was planning on beating my woman tonight...
Until I read your enlightening post.soundofreason - Ape, what kind of background do those men have? From countries/ religious up-ringing where women are being more disrespected?NBQ00
- https://youtu.be/INt…soundofreason
- @NBQ00 Mostly Caucasian middle class men, no specific religious beliefs.ApeRobot
- @ApeRobot
I looks like you're hanging around the wrong circles. Middle class gang here as well and don't know anyone in that situation.soundofreason - its fucked up how we treat people. Men also do get this - its not just women. Not to be insensitive just think its more of a psychological issue than gendermugwart
- Raped by brother+friend at 12, fashion photographer at 21 when modelling, and 30 drugged and raped by boss on business trip. My current...shapesalad
- ...grinds her teeth during sleeping, very anxious, panic attacks, snaps and immediately gets angry, becoming/is anorexic. Thanks guys.shapesalad
- And yes, she's middle class. tall, beautiful, used to model, intelligent, but damaged due to other men, and me, a nice guy is now left to pick up the pieces.shapesalad
- @soundofreason I had the same feeling until i met those woman. That is what surprised me.ApeRobot
- @shapesalad :(ApeRobot
- @ApeRobot
I totally understand your concern, I would be shocked as well in your situation.
However, I don't see it as a reason to be ashamed to be a man.soundofreason - you should be proud to be able to "rise about" the other cunts and help her out of this.
@shape - thats fucked up. Poor lass...mugwart - The PSA in your last sentence was so ridiculously naive it was funny (see Bill Burr).soundofreason
- PSA?mugwart
- *about is above.mugwart
- Whoever said they dont know anyone in that situation, you definately do. People tend to hide and bury those things and it's hard to talk about.shellie
- Even in an intimate relationship, people hate being looked at as damaged which is why especially women carry these things alone.shellie
- @mugwart
Public Service Announcement
"And if you're that kind of guy, check yourself, because you're a fucking asshole."soundofreason - It read like "If you're a rapist please stop raping".
Problem solved.soundofreason - oh ... no I was on the oppoiste side of this. I was abused and very neglected. I know the pain of my words and can grasp how it feels.mugwart
- i just find it hard to express myself in these limited text field boxes.mugwart
- was trying to express at least your aware of these issues and are prepared to try and heal the world/humans instead of being a cunt.mugwart
- the world is full of abuse and it needs to stop (no shit Sherlock) but I feel labelling it as gender and not psychological i feel is hindering.mugwart
- I've dated women like this, exactly as shape said, the nice guys get left picking up the pieces... it's always rough and hard to make it work out.robotron3k
- Relationships have been for a long time, who can break whom first. sorry for the mishmash of a sentence.helloeatbreathedrive
- lol robo, you're the "nice guy" in this scenario?monospaced
- ^Lolpango
- Robo is the victim in every scenarios.pango
- i'm sure you all treat the women in your lives with the same respect that you treat random strangers on the internet.imbecile
- Two ex's of mine were abused, both by close friends. One woke up and the guy was going at it, the other managed to get out of it (and they were both cops).formed
- The simple fact that people support a Pres and his chumps that joke and humiliate those that have the courage to stand up and speak says volumes about theformed
- integrity and state of the world. It shows this happens far more than us 'nice guys' ever think it could and just how many are 'ok' participating. Fucking sadformed
- seriously. who care about the nice guy. nice guys aren't the victim. just because you know someone who went through these terrible event, doesn't make you apango
- victim.pango
- oh nooose. nice guys get left picking up the pieces...
everything is about the nice guy. lolpango - and no i'm not directed at you mugwart. i completely understand bitches can get nasty as well.pango
- https://youtu.be/Sh5…pango
- If you're getting the nice guy discount on damaged goods deal with it or pay full price next time.soundofreason
- I get what your saying and agree, if you like the person then you should take them for what they are. Good and Bad but it is a lot to take and a lot to carry onmugwart
- funny video! Was a bit worse than that though ;-)mugwart
- my lady has a lot to put up with!mugwart
- @formed +1fadein11
- I was planning on beating my woman tonight...