Marriage.
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- JoeGrizzly
So when I was young and I had everyone telling me marriage is bad and its hard and its really a long drawn out way to destroy your life. I just thought maybe because their old it bitter. Now I know it's because I was young and stupid. I think my marriage is ending.
- dbloc0
uh ohh. sorry to hear that man.
- ali0
:(
- CALLES0
sorry to hear
- CALLES0
sorry to hear
- Hombre_Lobo0
shiiiit man. hope your ok. feel free to vent anything you like. your in qbn's trust tree.
hope your ok.
- dbloc0
any relationship can go sour...even friendships.
- ali0
What happened?
- JoeGrizzly0
It's weird because we're so young. Yet we act like we're old a bitter. Each one of us blames each other. I blame me and her, she just blames me. Recently she wanted to go to work so I said sure I don't care and now I stay home with our 3 daughters. But apprently i'm not a good housewife and now all we do is argue all the time. It's now getting to that point of we're just roommates who do what ever's best for out kids. We're both done.
- akrok0
at least you two didn't have kids, right? i think that makes it a bit harder.
- DRIFTMONKEY0
Get a fucking lawyer.
- DRIFTMONKEY0
Also, welcome to the club. Also, get a fucking lawyer.
- ukit0
Well, hey, it's not like you are alone. Around half of people who get married end up divorced these days.
- ThePublics0
I just pray Kevin Flynn isn't somehow involved.
- JoeGrizzly0
yeah, thats true. I was in decent shape had this happened a year ago. Now I don't work and I'm not a self sustaining human being.
- tredesigns0
marriage is to freedom as a bullet is to your brain.
- ukit0
Divorce rates in America:
First marriage 41%
Second marriage 60%
Third marriage 73%- damn...it only gets worse huh?dbloc
- Kinda makes sense I guess:|ukit
- how? you would figure when you get married and divorced first, you would realize what the mistakes were. So your next marriage should be better.. I guess this only proves that people don't want to change but think that others will put up with their shit every time.Boz
- marriage should be better.. I guess this only proves that people don't want to change but think that others will put up with their shit every time.Boz
- with their shit every time.Boz
- BuddhaHat0
I want to post the Princess Bride clip about 'mawidge', but I think it would be inappropriate.
Instead, I'll say that in the 8 months I've been travelling, 2 couples in my group of friends back home have separated, with another one on the books. Also, one engagement that we all think is destined for complete and utter failure.
Of the 2 separations, 1 of them has had as good an outcome as possible, with both parents stepping up to the plate and being adults about the whole situation. They're both solid, stable, and have the interests of their kids at heart.
The other, sadly, is a mess.
If you feel you're in the latter, do what everyone else has said. Lawyer up, protect yourself, and let the system do its thing.
Good luck.
- ps. I'm sorry to hear it Joe, I wish you all the best.BuddhaHat
- dbloc0
it's like a horse and carriage.
- lobstarr0
Even terminator could not last in a marriage:
- canuck0
You have 3 kids and you're 24?
- Yes.JoeGrizzly
- That's your problem. Too much going on.freedom