Wife material
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- scarabin0
with women it doesn't matter, all they have to do is find ONE guy who has his shit together
- version30
happiness is subjective and self-fulfilling...
what does that have to do with marriage and "wife material"?- what does happiness and self-fulfilling have to do with the title of this thread?styleplus_amillion
- 7point340
always going to be trouble.
if they are that superficial at 25 or 30 what makes you think they are going to change as they get older?
- $$$detritus
- $$$ is superficial, if you ask me.baseline_shift
- 30 is old, and $$$ does make them change, only they see it as "security".NONEIS
- When you are 30, and you might be, you will realize its not so old:)ibye
- when did i say 30 was old?7point34
- My comment was directed to NONEISibye
- ah, so it was7point34
- insomnie0
my parents are fucked in their head.
- showpony0
always trouble. always. even when they "grow up," and have kids etc., they're still a train wreck 90% of the time.
- styleplus_amillion0
@morilla
The truth can be quite frightening to those unwilling to perceive reality.- how do you think most of us are able to not kill people daily?spendogg
- juhls0
A lot of guys are attracted to those types of women, so they all deserve each other.
- it's all about maturity though. immaturity attracts immaturity...7point34
- thats what she said!shitehawke
- Right, 7.34. I'm saying they all deserve each other, because these men are obviously looking for something.juhls
- TheBlueOne0
Shorter styleplus_amillion: "You're all fucked up. It comes from your own hangups. Leave me out of it, despite me blathering on about my own hangups, I'm obviously not fucked up. And East African women are undeniably hot."
- :DTheBlueOne
- pretty accurate, actually. Not exact, but pretty damned accurate.styleplus_amillion
- ..and thus styleplus_amillion became Enlightened.TheBlueOne
- baseline_shift0
ive known a bunch of of 'refomed party girls'. They realize in their mid 20s or so that they spikey haired club dudes arent really that quality, and want 'daddy material'.
I dated one for a while. I think she thought that if she talked about marriage and kids enough, she would start becoming wife material. And while she was fun her history and old habits drove me crazy. Had to cut her free.
As they say, you cant make a ho a housewife.
- zarkonite0
Sounds like a lot of you don't even know what you have to offer, nevermind knowing what to look for in someone else.
- 7point340
also, there is no reason to think that the guys are looking for a wife
- morilla0
Please explain reality to me? Enlighten me....
- Greedo0
you get older, the baby alarm goes off and you either have kids or not. you get kids, the partying stops. you don't have kids, you keep partying until you look around and realize you're the oldest fucker in the place and that'll be your test of character right there.
- your baby alarm went off?scarabin
- niceepigraph
- or if you're like my ex you have a kid and leave him at home with your boyfriend while you go out and party instead of having a family7point34
- raising a family7point34
- i bet that kid wasn't planned, was it?Greedo
- that sucks 7.3epigraph
- he wasn't, no.
but, that's life.7point34
- BaskerviIle0
this thread is pure gold, well, gold plated at least.
Not sure what the definition of the kind of woman the original poster was talking about. But I've been going out with my new gf for 7 months, she still goes out dancing with her girlfriends (girls only), but I'm still not sure I trust her to go and get drunk etc without me, mainly because some of her friends are not what I'd call particularly moral people.
Is this my issue, should I just be cool with it? it's not my place to tell her what to do. Or should she quiet down on nights out etc now she's in a stable relationship. I trust her and know she wouldn't do anything silly, just wonder why the need to still be partying.
- because she likes to have fun? nothing wrong with that, and it's not your place to say she can't.lvl_13
- if trust is there, this should be a non-issue.lvl_13
- some words of advice. Never trust anyone...morilla
- what lvl13 said.juhls
- just watch for symptoms she's straying and enjoy your time with the guysscarabin
- this is a precursor to questionable behavior. Just keep tabs on her, it never turns out pretty in these types of situations.morilla
- situations. There is a reason she is out and still partying with friends who have questionable morals.morilla
- trust your gut.morilla
- There's no point being with anyone you can't trust. You can't watch them forever... and you shouldn't have to.ETM
- TheBlueOne0
Girls that don't have their shit together by their mid.late twenties will never get their shit together. I realized this last year when I went to this "reunion" of an old club I used to go to. All the chicks that were flaky, stuck up, and clueless in 1990 were now still flaky, stuck up and clueless except they were now pushing forty and were bitter, wrinkly and single. They were equally annoying to talk to now as they were then, yet still thought they were shit hot. They weren't then and they certainly aren't now. They still consider "drama" as life. They are harpies at any age one should well steer clear of.
- it's funny how this lifestyle doesn't ever learn it's lesson. it just becomes angrier.7point34
- it's always everyone else (read: guys) who are to blame7point34
- eharmony needs a customer base, doesn't it?Greedo
- "They still consider "drama" as life." - such an apt descriptionthebottlerocket
- HAHA harpies. Apt!styleplus_amillion
- jfletcher0
miko has some good points. I married my wife in Korea... we were apart for the first year. Living totally seperate while working on a visa. Granted we dated that way for 3 years, so it was normal to us.
My friends and coworkers were like "oh, you're life will change so much", blah blah blah. My life has changed... mostly for the better.
Take chances, have fun... you can't buy back time.
- baseline_shift0
@greedo, not necessarily true. Stupid party girls have ovaries, too. They can birth a kid and still be a stupid party girl. Even worse if they are with a rich dude who can support their constant idiocy AND the kid.
- true true, i was talking more about conscious baby-having rather than accidental.Greedo
- exactly my point 2 posts up. girls that think they want kids and then miss out on the partying7point34
- Right. i think normal people who plan a family settle into it nicely when the baby arrives. Not necessarily club rats.baseline_shift
- yep, but don't we all? Kids are a lot of work, and require major lifestyle changes.epigraph
- Khurram0
Fuck all these bitches who wont have sex with me! Fucking slags!!! Why do you dress like that bitch if you dont want my dick in yo mouth??!!!!
And fuck all these other bitches whom i can't control, fucking bitches
- 7point340
i am skewed as fuck.