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- TheBlueOne0
The turn this thread took reminded me of this:
http://fredoneverything.net/Maur…
"Maureen’s agonizing does however provide exegesis of the American female mind at a curious moment. Again and again their question seems to be, what form of pretense is needed to achieve marriage? Must I feign sex-kittenhood? Be a calculated suck-up who always laughs at his jokes? Hide my brains? The underlying idea is that they must commit some fraud to attract a man. This of course implies that they aren’t attractive without committing fraud.
I’ll give them that.
Those of us who have wives from Mexico, Thailand, the Philippines, Chile, or China view Maureen as being a very strange creature indeed, perhaps expelled from a geothermal vent. Like Maureen, so many gringas don’t seem to know who they are, what they are, what they want to be, or how to get there. I think of a tinkertoy construction made by an insane two-year-old: a lot of protruding parts that don’t fit together.
By contrast foreign women are psychologically coherent. They are sexy because they are women and like being sexy, not as a Vaudeville act or marketing tool. Resentment is not their primary emotion. They love their children and regard raising them as a pleasure, not an imposition of which they are ashamed.
The drumbeat of animosity is never missing from her hetero-anguished feminism. Men are vain, frightened, immature, unreliable, treacherous, fascinated by gewgaws, obsessed with sex, and unfaithful. Several questions arise. If men are so bad, why does Maureen want one? What kind of men has she been running around with? Those closely resembling herself, it sounds as if. Most to the point, why would any man want anything to do with such a woman?
This confusion and hostility has made the American woman into an internationally acclaimed shrew. Yes, there are degrees, and perhaps more exceptions than examples, but talk to white men from Washington to Hong Kong and you see the same shudder.
These gals are wound too tight. Recently I was aboard a highway bus in an American enclave in Mexico. A gringa wanted to get off where there was no stop. The driver didn’t understand her. In Mexico they speak Spanish, a point which apparently had eluded her. She began yelling at him abusively. (Verbatim quote: “You’re the worst! You suck! You’re the worst!”)
They do this. People notice. A friend somehow found himself talking with a gringa who had one of those puffy little white dogs you could buff a truck with. He said, “Cute little thing. I’ve got a real dog.” This mild witticism set her into yelling."
- Not saying I agree really, just thought it sounded like ninjastylebootplusTheBlueOne
- vaxorcist0
Hmmm.... I must admit that my current GF is damned attractive to me because she IS NOT "WIFEY-WIFEY" material, and that's exactly why I might marry her.... she's still hedonistic enough, but knows when to stop.... grown up but not grown bored....
- and I'm getting old and doddering, repeating myself....
vaxorcist
- and I'm getting old and doddering, repeating myself....
- chossy0
Aye. aye, very good but men love fucking crazy chicks!!!!! same as how women love fucking naughty boys!!!!!!
- but is the fucking you get worth the fucking you get?vaxorcist
- Of course it is, amazing pussy comes at a high price.chossy
- Is that Plato?prophet0NE
- confuciusMikeColdFusion
- or just confused...prophet0NE
- thompson0
the settle down when they get knocked up. then they transfer all their crazy into the kid. who grows up to be crazy.
circle of life.
- ceiling_cat0
Unlike men, women can change.
- btw, i have no idea wtf i'm talking aboutceiling_cat
- I was just gonna say... That statement is batshit bonkersmorilla
- Yeah, they change every forty seconds...TheBlueOne
- Marriage:she hopes he'll change, he hopes she won't. Both wrong.
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- visionary0
I've dated maybe two women who were marriage material. They were mostly cool and laid back. Bad timing though.
- Just couldn't get down with the owl tattoo, eh?TheBlueOne
- hahahaDrBombay
- styleplus_amillion0
^
EXCELLENT READ!!!
- chossy0
Still though eh? that lassie styleplus posted is very sheckshy, she wouldnae marry any of us cunts though so get back to work.
- styleplus_amillion0
Yeah, the culture is a garbage one.
I believe I stated that in one of my first posts in this thread...Don't get me confused with other posters in this thread. I don't mean to bag on American Women.
I understand that several of them are normal, wonderful people. I know that for a fact.But I also know that some of them are not.
newsflash: I did not initiate the negative talk about females in this thread (re-read the posts if you're confused)
my first post was to glorify the beauty in East African women.
my second post was to affirm the point in TheBlueOne's first post (which was 'negative')
my third post was to CLARIFY that ALL women were not as how TheBlueOne described (as harpies), but it's largely an American phenomena
This is my message. it's actually pretty simple.
If you get anything else out of it, then it's probably coming from your own hangups about your own lives.And that's fine too, but just be sure to leave me out of it.
- Shut it ye dick.chossy
- lol. nice backtracking when the girls start calling you misogynist. Or maybe thats my own hang up...baseline_shift
- laugh as loud as you want. I just want to make sure my point is clear.styleplus_amillion
- styleplus_amillion0
it's difficult to agree with such a viewpoint that attracts so much controversy...
It doesn't make the viewpoint any less valid.I'm glad TheBlueOne posted that, because it's always interesting for me to see another similar viewpoint, however controversial or non-controversial...
- insomnie0
Fuck American whores who are brought up on the idea that men should be like slaves.
- baseline_shift0
@ Dr. Bombay. That 50% divorce statistic is skewed as fuck.
50% of MARRIAGES end in divorce (so they say). Its not 50% of PEOPLE getting divorced.
Some people get married 2, 3, even 4 times. That throws off a seemingly straightforward stat
- that's true. If 25% of people marry and divorce twice, that's stlll 75% of people marrying successfully. Good thinking!mikotondria3
- nothing to get angry about.DrBombay
- lolwut?! i agree. thats why im not mad!baseline_shift
- Many times when people express opinions ghow they don't want to get married, married people take it personally.DrBombay
- personally, like I am saying their marriage will fail.DrBombay
- I mean bringing up those stats when saying I am not interested in marriage.DrBombay
- well, im not married. What aggravates me is this is such a widely accepted and false stat.baseline_shift
- skt0
- insomnie0
- do you have this?
http://www.a1aadvent…
morilla - 2 dimensional?DrBombay
- If not, she won't even look in your direction.morilla
- do you have this?
- version30
i always thought i should have married my ex. now not so much. my current gf has to move back to HK, we've been together two years, i'm wishing I could have married her. you know how much it sucks to say goodbye to each other for 10 days only to never see each other again? at least not for a long unknowable while. I'm really sad. whether or not either of these girls is "wife material" i think has a lot to do with whether I am "husband material"
- shiddy. 'what could have been' is always lame to think about. FULL STEAM AHEAD!!!!baseline_shift
- mikotondria30
Take your chances, don't over-think it; when you're married, you still take life and love one day, one decision at a time, that's all you need to do, you can't change your partner, all you can do is decide to do what it takes to either enrich the love your share, or not, being married is actually quite simple. Go to Hong Kong and surprise her and get married, you sound really sick about being apart. Life is short, being miserable makes it short and pointless.
Do it.- *unless she like a bridezilla screaming drama-ho, or anything like that.mikotondria3
- not at allversion3
- I intuited as much, sir, yes.mikotondria3
- version30
we've decided to grow on our own, we'll catch back up later and if it works it was meant to be and not forced, i mean i could force the issue here but at what expense to both of our futures?
thanks for the kind words miko.- you too baseline ;)version3
- Cheers!baseline_shift
- I don't understand how being married would've changed anything?zarkonite