Purity Balls
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- mrdobolina0
I read something that these girl's that sign these contracts are more down for anal and oral sex because their hymen remains intact.
- barbtastic0
"Daddy says I'm the best French-kisser!"
- harlequino0
This whole thing just screams "promotional action figurine," don't it?
- gramme0
My wife was a virgin when we got married. I unfortunately was not. It was tough to wait but I'm really glad we did. Our sex life is absolutely, daily basis, multi-orgasmic insane. Anybody who thinks Christians don't have great sex is living in an 18th century convent.
My wife's strong relationship with her father was vital in her staying a virgin until marriage.
The idea that one needs to take their significant other for a 'test drive' before making the commitment of marriage is utter bullshit. If you love them, if you are attracted to them, if you have passion, and if you are committed 100%, then a good sex life will follow. The sex will be much more enjoyable for having waited; I unfortunately can vouch for the truth of this by mistakes I've lived.
- barbtastic0
why don't they ever "promote purity" in young men?
HAHAHAHAHA
- ender790
well put, gramme.
- ender790
that's a good point, barb. kind of a double standard.
- gramme0
...And I also agree that the whole ceremony bit is creepy. I wouldn't do that to my daughter.
The title of this thread made me laugh :)
- bolus0
sex was always good, before marriage excisted it was good as well, i asume
- Mimio0
It's treating young women like chattel. Caveman shit.
- Jaline0
Harlequino, I completely agree.
And gramme, you have some good points. It's not just about the sex in this case either though...it's definitely more about control. But there should be moderation in everything, hopefully by one's own judgment and not just what other people are telling them.
- barbtastic0
gramme-
that's great :) but that was your wife's and your decision. what works for you doesn't necessarily work for the rest of the world...
- gramme0
that's a good point, barb. kind of a double standard.
ender79
(Mar 8 07, 10:20)Totally agree. My dad tried to instill those values in me, it didn't stick but he tried nevertheless. Years later I see the value of it.
- grunttt0
i like to be "controlled" once in a while. i liked it before i was married too.
- bolus0
born sinners, are we?
- gramme0
barb, I understand why you and others wouldn't do the same thing as we did, however I think we're all wired more or less the same when it comes to how we react to intimacy.
My 2ยข.
- Jaline0
that's a good point, barb. kind of a double standard.
ender79
(Mar 8 07, 10:20)
- ********0
sluts are overrated.
- barbtastic0
for all you slut-haters out there:
for the record, i was raised in a "good" baptist family. my parents ultimately wanted these things for me, but they also taught me to make my own decisions and learn from my mistakes.
i have a great relationship wth my dad, and not once did he ever try to control me or make me feel like i was less of a person for being a girl... he treated us with respect and encouraged us to be ourselves.
their religious ideals were put to the test when my sister became pregant out of wedlock... if my parents had been judgemental and controlling, we wouldn't have her 2 awesome kids in our lives now :)
- bolus0
premarital sex is underrated.... or so it seems, why do so many people seem to feel guilty/unhappy about the fact that they've had sex....
flagellum, you know this maybe?