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- Dublao70
No sweat man,
I bet you any amount of money. If you take the great advice in this thread by June you will have a whole different outlook on life.
good luck
keep your head up,
- combustible0
Bro, I'm sitting at the desk right next to you and I can't even talk to you about this... listen, kbags has it dead on. I know I've told you a lot of the same stuff, but I know from telling this to other friends that any advice we give is not really going to change your mind. You're still in love with her and you're holding on to that one last strand... I know it all too well.
Things will get better. It'll all work out in the end... not necessarily back with her (though it's possible) but it'll be the way that'll be best for your sanity and happiness. Honest.
- fifty500
thanks ryan, now what was so hard about turning around and talking to me? get back to work :P
- brooke0
If you really love someone, I don't think you ever really get over it. I still love my ex-boyfriend, even though I'm crazy in love with someone else now. It's been almost two years since our relationship ended, too. That's the way the cookie crumbles, I guess.
Mmm... cookies...
- me20
advise i was given "the best way to get over a girl, is to under one"
- fifty500
Brooke, not sure if that was supposed to make me feel better or not... I think I'll always love her. I'm a sappy guy...
- brooke0
Just saying, for future reference, it's okay to move on even if you still care for someone else. Sometimes you have to.
- fifty500
She says she wants to write a book one day about it... If she doesn't then I will. It would make a pretty decent screenplay too eh? I just think that the ending doesn't match the beginning. Such a fairy-tale story ending in such a way. It should have ended differently, no?
- fifty500
sorry just wanted to make the msg count 69 ;)
- _salisae_0
do you have any photos of you and your gal?
- snocat0
Good luck man.
I was in a relationship for 4 years and we were married, living together, carpool everyday, and share our incomes. It was fucking hard to break up like that. Especially she was my first love and someone that treated me better than my family. It took me half a year to recover and see the light. Im now happy to be single and decided to wait few more years for another relationships. Take kbags advice and time will heal you. Sometimes brooke's right, Im not in love with my ex-wife anymore but I still have much care for my ex.
- fifty500
here's a couple pictures. I look kinda creepy in them though... o_O
- blackspade0
shes a cutey
- fifty500
*sigh* yeah she is...
- blackspade0
sorry, that prob didnt help :(
actually i was very interested in yer story
i kinda met someone in a very similar way, and im travelling a 14 hour flight in 2 weeks time to meet her for the first time, im gonna be nervous as fuk
any advice bro!?
- fifty500
Wow a 14 hour flight? my advice to you is (since it's your first time meeting her) apply a fresh coat of anti-perspirant before meeting her! I had giant pit stains cause I was so nervous. Mints might be a good idea too (you might choke on gum).
The main thing is to follow your heart. I knew I wanted to kiss this girl soon after I met her, and it took me a few days to gather up the courage to finally do it. I followed my heart and ignored the critics and we lasted almost 3 wonderful years. It was definitely worth the time and the effort and I don't regret for a single minute starting things with her, no matter how hard things were.
Lots of people will tell you that you're crazy for going all that way to meet a girl, everybody told me that too, but they soon shut their mouths once they saw how perfect we were together.
Best of luck man!
- fifty500
another goofy picture of us at new years:
- blackspade0
sweet cheers man
yea had lotsa people saying its stoopid thing to do blah blah, would be good to shove it in their faces
...that last photo 'forbidden'
- fifty500
forbidden?
- blackspade0
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