Break ups
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- brooke0
Fifty, please don't listen to Mr_T. Everyone needs a little help & encouragement sometimes. It doesn't usually matter where you get it from, from NT or elsewhere. Hopefully we've helped you out a bit.
- fifty500
Thanks a lot MR_T. I guess it's time to end this thread.
- Tara0
what a sweet story, i wish you the best
- contribute0
kbags, I think you should write a book on this topic. seriously, that was some good language skills there.
- _salisae_0
by not letting it happen again - i mean, choose more appropriately - take your time - do your homework - figure out if the next girl you're into is compatible with you - in many ways.
you need to scream at your brain every time you think of this girl - STOP THINKING ABOUT HER!!
she is moving on and so should you.
sorry to be blunt.
another great thing to do is - sounds really weird - but take foolish action - if you've never sang karaoke - do it. if you're afraid of speaking in public - do it. it'll give you strength.
- Nac0
Listen to what everyone here is saying, I was in an almost 6 relationship that ended, its tough, and you feel numb abnd distraught im sure. However utilize that feeling to your advantage, like design, or write, whatever that will keep your mind occupied and eventually get you through everything =)
- fifty500
thanks :'(
- xrusos0
fly to europe and win her back.
the key is to buy a one way ticket. round trippers will send you packin'.
for real, if she's the one, go get her.
(no, no! not in a wierd stalking way!)
- fifty500
She says she wants to write a book one day about it... If she doesn't then I will. It would make a pretty decent screenplay too eh? I just think that the ending doesn't match the beginning. Such a fairy-tale story ending in such a way. It should have ended differently, no?
- blackspade0
shes a cutey
- xrusos0
if she's really not the one though... then listen to kbags.
(all except the get laid and drink yourself silly parts)
- fifty500
*sigh* yeah she is...
- blackspade0
sorry, that prob didnt help :(
actually i was very interested in yer story
i kinda met someone in a very similar way, and im travelling a 14 hour flight in 2 weeks time to meet her for the first time, im gonna be nervous as fuk
any advice bro!?
- ozhanlion0
if you are really feeling she is the one, I think it is time to be strong now.
Give some time to yourself and to her. Maybe couple of one night relationships. Let yourselves enjoy the life, or spend it as it is, some time, if she is the one, you are going to realize it sooner or later. listen kglad, self-confidence is the key. Don't lose it or you are gonna lose it yourself.
try new patterns of addiction/habits. Change them randomly to wash away the previous ones.
you can do these thinking she is the one and one day you will be get together again but there is another way I mentioned in the beginning.
you think that she is the one, go get 'er. That's a fucking life, you move or you don't move. 80 years later we won't be here talking.
good luck
- fifty500
Wow a 14 hour flight? my advice to you is (since it's your first time meeting her) apply a fresh coat of anti-perspirant before meeting her! I had giant pit stains cause I was so nervous. Mints might be a good idea too (you might choke on gum).
The main thing is to follow your heart. I knew I wanted to kiss this girl soon after I met her, and it took me a few days to gather up the courage to finally do it. I followed my heart and ignored the critics and we lasted almost 3 wonderful years. It was definitely worth the time and the effort and I don't regret for a single minute starting things with her, no matter how hard things were.
Lots of people will tell you that you're crazy for going all that way to meet a girl, everybody told me that too, but they soon shut their mouths once they saw how perfect we were together.
Best of luck man!
- MR_T0
jesus you're a sap...I am trying to be understanding here, but discussing this over a message board...man, she was right to dump you
- blackspade0
sweet cheers man
yea had lotsa people saying its stoopid thing to do blah blah, would be good to shove it in their faces
...that last photo 'forbidden'
- fifty500
forbidden?