Dating after a certain age
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- necromation3
Split from a long term relationship of 12 years - We just ended up becoming more flatmates and will remain friends...|
But now i got myself a Russian model (no,not a mail order one!) and genuine super kind soul. Oh i'm 46
- NBQ00-1
- The problem is, after you exhausted your friends network, co workers etc, been to some meetups with odd bods, where else are you to meet anyone?shapesalad
- You may well see an attractive to you lady while out and about, but if you dare to approach they respond ‘I have a bf’.shapesalad
- Plus in my area of London 75% of the women I see in my neighborhood, at the supermarket etc are covered in a black bed sheet. Can’t even see their face.shapesalad
- I actually met a bunch of very cool women on Bumble a few years ago (in NYC). But I would chat very briefly and if there was any connection meet in personhardhat
- Shape, they’re covered in bed sheets and you’re complaining? You’re half way there buddy!futurefood
- I don’t think your biggest dating hurdle is the “black bed sheets”, ya racist fuckscarabin
- sted0
- necromation2
Oh, i know it's a tired trope... Get fit! The way women look at me now is waaaay different, I can't say I was ugly and I never really had any issues finding partners but it was usually a very different effort... Now I've completely changed my appearance thru just training and taking more care of my health, I'm still in a happy relationship of 5 years but now when I go out with mates I can guarantee i get hit on by at least one woman, it feels super weird and almost outta body, it's a nice confident boost but i know what i got at home awesome :)
- *is awesomenecromation
- you get hit on by women? where do you live? usually women don't hit on a guy no matter how hot he is as they expect the men to make first moveNBQ00
- Where is this land of women who are constantly hitting on middle aged men?!HAYZ1LLLA
- < Thailand_niko
- < Guinea-Bissau.shapesalad
- < Ukraine.zardoz
- May also be because you are not looking and just relaxing with your friends you get hit on. You send out a different vibe.Nutter
- Combination of being fit, and what Nutter says. Fit, chill, and living in the present with your mates? That sort of person is irrisistable, men or women.Continuity
- No wonder you're getting flitered with, necro!
Take notes, NBQ00.Continuity - Also, do dispense with the PUA bullshit about women expecting men to make the first move, NBQ00. Real life isn't an Andrew Tate video. God.Continuity
- Also-also, *flirted withContinuity
- < Epstein Islandutopian
- is this the Russian model you mentioned below 3 years ago?fadein11
- I've got a friend who is the absolute bullseye of female desire. We'll meet in a pub for a chat and women will start wandering over asking if knows...Horp
- where the toilets are, or what brand of beer they should try, or what the time is whilst wearing a watch and holding a mobile phone. They queue up to ask stuff.Horp
- Horp, is he a male top model?NBQ00
- < Alabama - his mom..hydro74
- I noticed something similar not long after i got married... there's a confidence and relaxation that goes along with marriage. women 'sense' that you're notexador1
- desperate, or 'looking' or hitting on them etc, and that can be attractive. Also, there's the sense that if someone else thought you were worthexador1
- 'taking off the market' that maybe you're worth looking into. Also, at our age in life success, or atleast comfortableness can be very attractive.exador1
- a buddy of mine for the past 30 years or so is a pretty successful black dude. Works in marketing for big banks etc. When we were young dads, he and his wife,exador1
- and me and mine took a trip to New Orleans. as we walked through town, both of us pushing strollers with our kids etc, maaaaaaan, the looks he got.exador1
- handsome, black, well dressed, and a good dad???? it was like they were pushing his wife out of the way to chat him up lol...exador1
- I think at 50 (me) at this point its likely the fact that i'm still slim, dress decent, and after 30 years with my wife, am not 'on the prowl'... so it givesexador1
- off the 'i'm safe' vibe i suppose....exador1
- I've been hit on few times by women before. Only to realise it yrs later lolpango
- Guys take note: The women of little talked about country Guinea-Bissau are looking to get their pussies stretched. They'll do almost anything for a western visashapesalad
- I've already been on a sortie there and managed to bang a decent amount. I only picked up a couple STDs but it was worth it.shapesalad
- Are you on a quest to collect all kind of STDs?pango
- So you've gone and managed to pick yourself up some syphillis, eh, shapesalad? It would certainly explain your brain-rot.Continuity
- You know that someone is a Virgil when they start bragging about 'stretching pussies' of desperate girls in developing countries.canoe
- I wish my Latin was good enough to be called a Virgil, canoeGnash
- In most western countries chances of getting hit on by women is slim even if you're handsome. On the other hand women start complaining why they never get...NBQ00
- ...hit on anymore. Couple women told me already.NBQ00
- @pango you mean hit by a few women (not hit on) ;)NBQ00
- ya by them
https://i.imgur.com/…pango - LOL Shapesalad will chime into any conversation to talk about visa desperate foreigners. Sad little man.HAYZ1LLLA
- shapesalad-5
1) Withholding sex
2) Withholding fun
3) Withholding affection and approval
4) Being very controlling
5) Trying to change your husband
6) Being moody and emotionally volatile
7) Demeaning men's activities
8) Get them to open up their feelings and insecurities, then use those against them
9) Mothering your husband
10) Treat them like they don't have feelings and dismiss their emotions- Sorry your going through that. But you know you can always leave and go to Guinea Bissaupango
- Since it's abundantly clear you can't make a woman happy, I suggest you try it with men. You might have better luck.Continuity
- My wife is 0 for 10 on this list... I married a literal angel, tho.PonyBoy
- ^ I don’t know about that, pony - When you told your fire story in the blog, sounds like you left her behind! You got the dog, though :)Gnash
- haha!! She was already at work. <3PonyBoy
- ;)Gnash
- Faden 11 - It's actually 4 years apparently she told me! feels like five lolnecromation
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