girlfriend not supportive?
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- sherm0
so lets see:
u don't live together
not married to her
not your kids
and you want to go to NYC to pursue a better life for yourself?Seems simple to me personally, just tell her what you want to do and move forward.
She isn't going anywhere anytime soon and will be there... where ever you come from...
If you try to appease this person and compromise in some kind of way, you will always have regrets going forward.
Plus there are tons of poon here...
- sea_sea0
as hard as it is, you have to go to school. this will benefit you both in the long run won't it? or why would you be concidering it??
i can see how she can be scared to lose you, that's it. she doesn't want to lose you. that's were the "engagement" issue comes to play. but really say you leave go to school and then what? so your engaged, do you plan a wedding? for some reason just doesn't make sense. like marriage solves problems? yeah right.
change is difficult for everyone involved. and at this point nothing you can say will reassure her. because all she want to here is "I'm not going" or "i found a closer school".
good luck hijo. ;)
- irrelevant0
I can't believe no one has asked the most important question which of course is:
Does she have an amazing rack? If yes post pictures, if no go to NY.
- SunSunSun0
What is her hotness rating out of 10?
- ntimm0
You do know she is monitoring this thread..
- goldieboy0
You have to go to NYC. If you don't, you'll only end-up blaming her for twisting your arm to stay. You'll eventually break-up using this as an argument against her. But, it's your life and your call... good luck either way.
Ps. NYC chicks... oh yes!
- Ambushstudio0
Kill her and the 2 kids, put them in the trunk of an old beat up american car , pour gasoline on it and bur that shit deep in the woods.
:)
Can you imagine all the writing inspiration, stress and fear that shit will produce on you! damn man I wish I could have a situation like that, Nancy Grace would totally be on top of that shit right away!- i'm relieved to know i'm not the only psychopath on qbn. today is a good day.CanHasQBN
- Frosty_spl0
Why would you date a waitress with 2 kids in the first place? Fuckbuddy maybe, relationship, hell no.
- Love happens.HijoDMaite
- waitress, WTF????
GET OUT NOW, while you still cananimatedgif
- camer0
Pass her the link to this topic and your problem is solved.
- ok_not_ok0
"She has two little girls to take care of ..."
There's you answer right there. Register now!
- yup not my kids but of course I love them.HijoDMaite
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- Mister20
"She has two little girls to take care of ..."
You are a class A dick.
- I should have worded it different. I just mean we are not married yet.HijoDMaite
- utopian0
you are FK'D if you do, and FK'D if you don't. Unfortunately, this is a classic quagmire.
- Mister20
Who pays the bills?
Do you live together?
Where are you now?
What does she do?
- Complexfruit0
Do you have to go to NY for grad school? What about something closer to her as a compromise?
- Journalism is in New York.
Yes there are options here too.
Also applying for Univ of MissouriHijoDMaite - Gotcha. Whatever you do, you should definitely pursue what you want. Good luck.Complexfruit
- Journalism let me stop your right there... That's like debt written all over it.Iggyboo
- Journalism is in New York.
- omg0
get engaged, but save the marriage til after grad school. then everyone wins
- this is what makes sense.
HijoDMaite - you have to want to get engaged not just toe the line to kae your dream come truefadein11
- this is what makes sense.
- Mister20
Who is going to pay for the bills while you are in school (either in school close by or in NYC)?
- ok_not_ok0
Do you really want to end up with somebody who doesn't have your back? Maybe she's the reason why she's not with the father of her kids?
I'm just guessing...but yes follow your dreams.