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- winter0
go rub his face and say "nice ass"
gruntt
(Dec 20 05, 08:20)
------------------------------we have a winner! roflolmao.
- kingjulien0
Is kingjulien gonna have to choke a CEO in hotlanta?
Seriously, Shari, I'm really sorry - truly, but please don't let this slide. It's not okay. Everybody who knows you will understand that you're not motivated by a big payout, but you still must have this documented, just in case things ever escalate. I would consult an attorney, but at the minimum, someone at the company (and with the authorities) needs to be aware.
And please realize, there are other jobs out there, and regardless, they can't use this against you. If anything, you have the leverage now.
Also realize you're quite talented, so there will be plenty of other opportunities for you.
Finally, I'm free for a week, so if you decide you need to get all harlem knights style and shoot off his pinky toe, I'm down for a journey. Let me know.
- -sputnik-0
sadly, it doesn't sound as if she's really motivated to react to this as she should :(
hope you do salisae...he'll only do it again. think of the message you're sending...taking you seriously will really never occur to him.
- _salisae_0
thanks kingjulien.
now they're having a meeting with the programmer and have decided to leave me out. FOCKERS.
really glad i'm starting another job in january. i hope they don't have screwed up account service people there.
- selfproclaim0
My boss, and a few others, keep insisting on myself and another junior designer go out together. (ever since he hired her, he insisted on "you'll like her...")
He's even gone so far to say, "When are you to just going to admit you love each other?" while she and I were talking about a projct.
Thing is, I think she might actually like me and I don't like her. Either way, I don't think my girlfriend would really appreciate it much either. So what is this situation?
- kyl30
harrassment is defined as anything inappropriate that makes you feel uncomfortable, in the least way.
- monkeyshine0
Do it for the girls! No need for a lawyer and formal complaint is, at this stage, not effective. But you really should confront him. Tell him that not only is his behavior inappropriate but illegal and you won't tolerate being disrespected.
Do you want to work for someone who has such little respect for you as a professional?!
- gruntt0
Admittedly, I wouldn't have done anything right away. I'm not even sure I would have done anything at all...
Jaline
(Dec 20 05, 08:24)
_____would you like to come in for an interview?
sorry. back to the seriousness of the issue at hand... no pun intended.
- -sputnik-0
selfproclaim, there's nothing wrong with telling him that he's making you uncomfortable, and you are very serious about your work.
you usually don't have to go very far beyond that...it sends a message. if they start in on "he's not a team player", it might be time for another chat.
- gruntt0
how long ago did he smack your ass? recently?
- e-pill0
did this happen at work or at a bowling alley?
- -sputnik-0
did this happen at work or at a bowling alley?
e-pill
(Dec 20 05, 12:50)does it matter? not being an ass...seriously...do you guys think it matters if your boss gets "personal" at work vs. let's say a party or a restaurant away from the office?
just curious
- gruntt0
the only reason i ask how recent is was is because the longer she waits the less effective it will be to confront him. the sooner the better.
- _salisae_0
last friday during our office christmas party at the bowling alley
- kyl30
no difference if it's a work related event
- gruntt0
friday, that's pretty recent.
best of luck to you. i agree with most everyone here in saying that's totally unacceptable.
- seed0
Was he drunk?
- _salisae_0
selfproclaim
just talk about your girlfriend at work. should clear that up pretty quick.
- Jaline0
good luck Shari
- _salisae_0
not drunk but maybe tipsy