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- fourthgen
I've been hanging out with a girl from work and well nothing has really happened. I was kind of hesitant at first because we work together but now I'm thinking "fuck it".
But maybe I'm too late and falling into the friend zone? wouldn't it be weird as shit if I all of a sudden started making moves?
- _salisae_0
you are never 'falling into the friend zone'. you're either a friend or you're not. these people who think 'when harry met sally' is a viable plot line for their life's expectations are just sleepy.
- univers0
jab her with your winky.
- HAHAHA1pxsolid
- this is probably the funniest thing i've read this whole year.iCanHasQBN
- sikma0
lol - i love the range of advice found here
- brandelec0
make your move. if you get rejected, piss on her dog
- marchelo0
dont take her out for dinner, and if you do, dont pay for her...
- funny thing is she made me dinner last night and we watched a movie. i froze :/fourthgen
- It seems like it could be more serious to me, but what do I know.Jaline
- well she's real friendly, and new to town. she actually made dinner for some one else she has no interest infourthgen
- i don't know I just need to stop talkng myself out of thingsfourthgen
- Hmm...maybe not then? I don't know.Jaline
- overly friendly girls are the most confusing.ornj
- 3point141590
Fraternizing with co-workers is a dangerous proposition my friend. I know of one too many people who have dated co-workers, they usually always end up in a train wreck. One or the other, or both co-workers get fired, getting sued for sexual discrimination, or sexual harassment, or if you are really lucky just some really bad rumors will circulate around the office about you and or her, good luck to you either way.
Love,
William Shatner
- ukit0
Drop some sexually suggestive, but completely inscrutable comments here and there when you hang out with her. Eventually, wondering whether you really want her or not will drive her crazy, and she will fall for you.
- ribit0
*makes notes
- sureshot0
just say you like her...and than see what she has to say.
- fourthgen0
sureshot,
from my experience putting the ball in her court never really ever works out for me. although in this situation I thought about going along the lines of "originally I hung out with you because you seemed cool, were new to town, and I could use another friend, etc. but you ended up being cooler than I thought blah blah blah.... I'd hate to make it weird with work and everything but this it's how I feel... etc"
- tommyo0
or make a joke like 'if you keep cooking me dinner I might have to file a sexual harassment complaint against you' and see what she says.
- sureshot0
how old are you? becauce you are taking this way too fucking seriously. just say you dig her...lifes short my friend..maybe tommorow some other dude passes by and kisses her on the lips!
you could be that other guy.
- fourthgen0
lol shureshot. that's really all I needed. usually my friends can give me that type of advice... but I work with all of them to
- janne760
fourthgen
I've been hanging out with a girl from work and well nothing has really happened. I was kind of hesitant at first because we work together but now I'm thinking "fuck it".
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fuck it?
show some respect to start with, and treat her like a human being.so, correct yourself and say,
"fuck her?"
- marchelo0
just lean in half way, and kiss her.
- ETM0
Just make sure one of you is willing to change jobs if it gets serious. I speak from experience, I met my wife at work, and after a while you can't keep it up (the secrecy that is). But to not risk a relationship over a job is madness. Jobs are easier to find that good relationships. If you think she's special, go for it!
- I agree with this. You (or her...) may have to leave. People can't help but treat people who have a relationship a different way.Jaline
- fourthgen0
etm,
good advice. never heard it from that perspective. everyone has always told me to just stay away. Although we work under the same department we are in two different locations and really don't work directly with each other if that makes sense. Lately I've been thinking that if things went sour it wouldn't be that big of a deal. Also I was pretty much on my way out of this job until the economy went bad!
- WeLoveNoise0
yes - dnt make a move cos u will fuck it up
what u need to do is get her drunk on a night out and take advantage
not in a rape way like - but if she turns u down u cud get her more pissed and prob wont remember a thingproblem solved
- sound advicefourthgen
- are you 10?Jaline
- wow, you must get all the ladies.duckofrubber
- yup they call me mr lover loverWeLoveNoise
- digdre0
do It like me, wait untill she does the first step
It's probably not the way it should but I shit on that- and how long have u been single 4 ?WeLoveNoise
- agesdigdre
- but really, I don't need a girlfriend at this point in my life.. all will get worse when I have onedigdre
- They cost money wich i don't have
they cost time wich i don't like to spend at this moment.digdre