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- STRIPPERS0
How old are you? If she let's you hit it doggy on the first couple of dates, she's probably not the one. Good luck bro.
- CALLES0
are you a girl strippers? A/S/L?
- STRIPPERS0
Back off calles I probably have a bigger one than you. Im not fruity either... I just like strippers. Females with big titties specifically Asian.
- i like this guy already.sublocked
- cool catLlyod
- this guy is awesomemarchelo
- asians with large breast? Honestly i've never seen it. Odd.tedismyfav
- slappy0
I have a good feeling about this. If he can choose the right info from the QBN brains trust then its on like, well you know.
- fourthgen0
ok well got shotdown tonight. she said she's waiting for an important phone call and wanted a reschedule. could be genuine but the "important phone call" is probably from the guy that's going to get it.
oh well. important lesson learned again. quit overthinking and quit stalling.
- MrOneHundred0
Ah, 4G, that sucks. It does sound a bit like an excuse, I have to say. Maybe give it a day or two, act like nothing’s happened and then just casually ask about re-scheduling. If she gives you another lame-o, you know she was never top-shelf from the beginning. If she comes clean and says she’s not interested – no harm, no foul, move on. If it was a genuine reason and things go as you hope, then you have gained major cred by keeping your shit together.
I have a mantra for these types of occasions just say to yourself 5 or 6 times – “just be cool”. It really works.
Good luck!
- slappy0
I would give her the benefit of the doubt. Might not just be an excuse.
- Llyod0
the friend zone is like quicksand. the harder you spend trying to get out of it the more likely you're going to sink.
- BusterBoy0
PIITB...
But seriously, life's too short to get too uptight about this kind of shit. Either make a move or don't make a move. But don't let it fucken well uncle fester.
- MrOneHundred0
Actually, I would say that the kind of “do or die approach is the only thing that might work here, so go and lunge at her while she’s at the photocopier” approach is not what the ladies go for.
If I may be so bold as to suggest, I think if she is interested, but maybe a little uncertain, then attention to detail, sticking to a plan and keeping your cool is going to stand you in better stead than “going all-in on a pair of threes”.
Just be cool.
(feel free to let me know how I’m doing, ladies)
- JSK0
Even if you know things are not going to work out, still do it. You never know what could happen. I rather try it and screw up then always wonder what could have been.
If you are afraid, go one eharmony.com
- STRIPPERS0
Listen... 90 posts later and you fell into the friend zone. Do NOT offer to cook her anything especially on the first date. Don't be the "nice guy" girls will walk all over you. Now you just wait, don't follow up let her come to you... If the opportunity comes up to do something for an hour or two then go for it and peace out. Don't try to get to know a girl in one day and don't tell her ALL about you, leave her wanting more. If you go out DONT pay for her, just give her attention and listen, ladies want affection. Gold diggers want $$$
- Llyod0
hey strippers, how do you get a woman to pay for dinner? is splitting it better?
- STRIPPERS0
And shes probably full of shit, but if she wants to re-schedule let her come to you. It may have been true. The cool girls like dancing or shows, don't try to play it Romeo style. Sorry for the bit of advice but it seems you could use it. If there's another girl then check them out too. You'll find when you have a potential date with two girls... That's when they get interested for some womanly reason.
- STRIPPERS0
Lloyd, I'd split the bill... It keeps things easy in the beginning. As for this guy he should let her come to him... And play off the "oh you have time now? Great, you can buy ME dinner." Present it jokingly OR you can ask her to "TRADE"... she provide/buys dessert and you have a Suprise for her...a Show, whatever.(just don't tell her what it is.) Not a movie though. That's it I'm done playing love dr for now.
- MrOneHundred0
You see, I really think any reference to the rebuff – even in a joking manner would seem like you were being pissy. Let it go! Be cool. Be cool enough to show you have the balls to accept the rebuff at face value and man-up for another shot. Chicks (in my experience) hate a whingy, sulky head-games.
- marchelo0
This thread is still going!? I agree with strippers and 100, stay cool and give her time to come to you. You said she made you dinner, thats awesome... Give it a week or so and when the time comes, give her a dessert or something... (no dinner.) Take her to a concert, girls do like that stuff... and it gives you a chance to dance and get out of the friend zone.
- OSFA0
and..
- OSFA0
100SFA!!!
- Dude, your name has a O not an 0!slappy
- Disallowed for the and...MrOneHundred
- She how I stuffed that up haha.slappy
- haha! I've been in fornt of the computer for more than an hour and got tired of waiting for someone to hit 99...OSFA
- Been there...MrOneHundred