How should I handle this?
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- BozMan0
I am currently seeing someone, I thought about the 3 some option. Oh and my friend is a cop so if i call the police he'll just show up and bang her.
- BozMan0
Again my whole gripe is to avoid the Awkwardness. I dont care who you are if you showed up somewhere to meet your friends and your ex of 4 years is there chilling with your buddy you'd be like "wtf is going on." I'd just like a little heads up thats all. Becasue all this is going to cause is awkwardness which could have been easily adverted. But now i just look at it as shady nonsense and you're right he prob not a good friend. Oh well.
- your obviously in your 20'steam_zissou
- "YOU'RE"!!!! Fucking hell, dude.
The word is YOU'RE. It's a contraction of YOU and ARE. Please look it up and learn it.mikotondria3 - LOOOL.meffid
- hahaha@mikosea_sea
- BozMan0
btw so many diverse opinions I love QBN so much. (no sarcasm implied) This has been quite helpful, thanks
- autoflavour0
first step to handling this
DO NOT ASK QBN FOR ADVICE
- BozMan0
you kidding you guys crack me up.
- OSFA0
You should be mad at her for chatting and 'talking' to your buddy. And to show her to not mess with you and that you are in control, sleep with him first. That way she'll feel like she got leftovers... and you win!
- i like the way your mind worksBozMan
- your obviously in your 40's.team_zissou
- hahaha osfa is the daddy!Hombre_Lobo
- ewwsea_sea
- BozMan0
again this is not about her but more about is he a friend or just a shady feck. Would you F your best boys ex girl in the A and not tell him?
- OSFA0
hahaha, you know most QBNers are virgins right?
- team_zissou0
You don't own her, her feelings or her emotions.
She is not your slave.
Let it go and get another babe.That should be a fucking song.
- lowimpakt0
if this thread was any more stalky it would be rapey.
- ok_not_ok0
How would you feel if you find out that the girl your with now still cares and worries about her ex?
- ralphlas0
Why do you even give a damn after all these years? They are both adults who know what they are doing, so just let 'em do whatever they like....
- dMullins0
This reminds me of the beginning of the last SAW movie in every way possible.
- mirrorball0
EASY! Just make sure your with a hotter looking woman when you bump into her, Case closed.
- or man... whoever you want to get jealous... not sureCALLES
- Jaline0
3 years is enough time. Of course feelings can still be there, but you should be putting her out of your mind after all that time.
As for the friend: If he never told you about it (and, at this point in his life, he should know what "it" is, especially with the number of women he's allegedly dated), then he's not really one of your best friends. Wait a while and see if he clues in. Ask him about it one day (in an indifferent way) if you two do hang out, and see what he says. If there's some good reason behind it, you'll have to decide if you want to continue to stick with him. Otherwise, leave him behind. It's disrespectful for him to date someone he knows you really liked without at least bringing it up with you first. Not to ask permission, but to let you know.