How should I handle this?
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- Jaline0
3 years is enough time. Of course feelings can still be there, but you should be putting her out of your mind after all that time.
As for the friend: If he never told you about it (and, at this point in his life, he should know what "it" is, especially with the number of women he's allegedly dated), then he's not really one of your best friends. Wait a while and see if he clues in. Ask him about it one day (in an indifferent way) if you two do hang out, and see what he says. If there's some good reason behind it, you'll have to decide if you want to continue to stick with him. Otherwise, leave him behind. It's disrespectful for him to date someone he knows you really liked without at least bringing it up with you first. Not to ask permission, but to let you know.