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- JSK0
You are having the break up / argument remorse. When things go back being good, you just go back to how you were.
Every girl you date either takes you further away or toward marriage.
- airey0
tell the truth, you asked if you could blast her in the ass didn't you?
- wordsinyourmouth0
studd - i feel for you on this one man.... i'm stuck in pretty much the exact same position (she moved out here to be with me, turned down a full ride PHD program to do so and now works in a coffee shop), in fact my girl has said the exact same thing to me "i know you love me, but it just hurts because i love you more"
can't get any real advice b/c I'm in the same debacle, she wants to get married and I just can't for the life of me commit, been together off and on for over 3.5 years, lived together for a while too ( still do ). Shit could get very messy, very quick.
Best of luck man.
- That's a tough situation. I'm not sure giving up school was the best decision :/
Good luck.Jaline
- That's a tough situation. I'm not sure giving up school was the best decision :/
- kaptenfest0
love sucks, last night i went out and met a girl i like on a concert. the problem is that my friend is also into her. should i back off (he has known her longer)
- DONT BACK OFF. WIN HER OVER!!!!!iCanHazQBN
- If he's a very good friend, yes, back off. But if she likes you and/or you know it could be something good, no, depending onJaline
- on whether he's a good friend or not.Jaline
- First come, first serveukit
- mg330
It's like the Beastie Boys songs says:
"No time like the present to work shit out!"
- truth.studderine
- you trying to get more beastie boys albums sold now? huh? huh??_salisae_
- studderine0
yeah, its my fault too. i used to say i wanted to get married and i really felt that way.
- Jaline0
If you're living for the present and she's living for the future, I'm not sure it will work. You sound like you really care about her, but if you're admitting that perhaps the "slip" was more than "just a slip", then I think you guys need to not be too serious about things for a while, and see how it goes. As sea_sea said, she probably just wants to know that she's not wasting her time, which is an answer you may not be able to give her at this time (judging by your posts so far). But perhaps you can help alleviate the pressure.
- mg330
No problem - hope things figure themselves out for the best no matter which way it goes. I've been through some tough stuff like that myself and came out on the best side and things worked out well.
We'll have to grab some drinks soon for sure! Will you be in town over Christmas?
- studderine0
yo mikey mike mg dj mg, thanks for the words
- Jnr_Madison0
Having scanned this thread, I get the impression you think you are missing out on something and that's the reason you are unsure about the future?
- i dont know if am missing out on something, but the future is a unknown. before it wasn't :(studderine
- Well, I agree with the person who said live for how you feel today. With one foot in the past and one in the future you are pissing all over today.Jnr_Madison
- pissing all over today.Jnr_Madison
- jnr's got it on the button_salisae_
- studderine0
what makes matters worse is we are going on a little vacation back home for new years. hanging out with family and friends, the uneasiness isn't going to help. she even stated, "i know you love me, but it just hurts because i love you more". felt like a punch in the gut.
- mg330
Studderine,
Do you have some spare cash laying around? Sounds like you two need to spend the night at Sybaris Pool Suites - http://www.sybaris.com
1. Private 16' Swimming Pool Heated to a Sultry 92 Degrees
2. Tropical Waterfall
3. Soothing Hot Tub
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- commission?_salisae_
- LOL. This place is strangemg33
- nice mg33studderine
- studderine0
she couldn't be any more perfect...and i dont understand why i do these things unconsciously
- ukit0
What would she do if you broke up? Stay in town or go back home?
- she have to move 2000 miles back. thats a huuuge deal.studderine
- studderine0
salisae there is alot of added pressure. and the facebook comment, although may not be a be big deal, really hurt her and it some ways was almost a freduain slip. after the "slip", we really broke down and talked and it brought up some things we both have been keeping in.
- maybe more things IVE been keeping in rather than her.studderine
- _salisae_0
sounds to me like you and your girl have too much added pressure on your relationship to enjoy each other. ask her to be your friend and see if you can relax around the subject of the future enough to enjoy the present.
also, her age isn't a concern really. people go through their entire life without love or the right person at their side. you can't force it and you're extremely lucky to have it when you do.
- mg330
studderine, if I weren't about to head out to Rockford for the weekend I'd take you out boozin.' 11am is a plenty acceptable drinking time on a Saturday.
- monospaced0
Can you please STOP writing "Enter response" before your posts, e-pill?
- is it really bothering you that much?? why though?? i miss newstoday, can i has my fun?e-pill
- it's kinda annoying because you're the only one and it's unneccessarymonospaced
- okay.. no more...e-pill