what do men want?
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- BannedKappa0
What do men want?
To answer this correctly without generalising one would have to first examine the question. Firstly the use of the word “men”. All men differ as do women, but in the case of the “Vir Devotus” one would be broadly speculating to assume that all men like the same.
One could assume the following about men –
We like a plenty of sex, little conversation, ladies in the street and whores in the bedroom, we love spending time with out mates, we don't understand women, and dislike shopping, beer is great, on good day better, and anything to do with sport is magnificent.We also might imagine that men –
Would love to understand women, enjoy a healthy sex like. We love spending time with out mates, but that’s also just some quality time away from the you, we love a lady in the street and whore in the bedroom, and you must respect us but more so yourself.We might want a girl who has her own agenda or hobbies that keep her occupied and don’t rely on us as a constant provider of an itinerary.
We’ll look at your friends and whether we like it or not we’ll most likely critic you by them. We love a good family, and the less insecure you are the better, jealousy is cute in small doses, but the smaller the better.
We love spontaneity & impulsiveness, and dislike constantly planned events. We don’t mind the odd family function but keep them spaced out.
We don’t mind hearing about your ex once or twice, but don’t make it a constant episode. Don’t bring up details of your past experiences and for god sake don’t ask about ours.
Say something once but don’t nag. And once a month when you’re feeling bloated, tell us how we can help, honestly we’ve got no idea what it’s like, and it’s a struggle to empathise.
Measured confidence is everything, there’s nothing more unappetising than self-doubting people, men or women.
Good luck!
- tara_GEE0
clushd :(
- ********0
dinner
something a man would do for a woman example id find it hot if a girl asked me out or asked me to marry her.
- boobs0
Men want something interesting to do when they're not fucking.
- OSFA0
hahaha!
- ********0
Well, when the fucking ends, and it will end boys, all men want is what they wanted in the beginning: respect/trust/commitment, nothing more, nothing less, no different than any woman, any man, any *person* would want. It is pretty simple, anything else is a lie. Of course I am single and this is how it is working out for me, so take it for what it is worth.
- cannonball19780
we don't understand women, it's true
but
most of us aren't interested in understanding women.
we just want to fuck you and gave a good time hanging out with you
we dont want head games, especially when women dont even know they are doing it and we have to sit them down and explain it to them.
- cannonball19780
its like... why the fuck do i have to struggle to "understand you"? fucking make yourself understood.
putting the onus of being understood on the other person is a fucking head game
- ********0
men want women
- mynameisdave0
snuggs
- ********0
men want incomplecated women.
but we all know that does not exist.so we want the impossible.
- kezza_20
From the Times this morning:
"On long afternoons with no task to complete or deadline to meet, I’m filled with free-floating angst. Though I often, foolishly, yearn for proper leisure, with no obligations to meet and no pressure, the cold fact is that I’m happiest busy – beaverishly, feverishly up to the neck in some project. I like to work.
I got more pleasure out of building a bookcase last month than I’d ever have derived from buying the slickest, most expensive shelving that was ready-made. Fixing its knotted pine boards crudely with L-braces, I got blisters from the screwdriver, but I didn’t mind. Slathering the boards with varnish in the basement, I was far more content than I’d ever have been basking in Bermuda
I’d rather bake a tart than eat it, or order a slice in a café; I prefer to earn my crust. I love dragging furniture that’s far too heavy for me all about a room until the arrangement sings. Though I may dread the chores beforehand, once into the swing I can even relish balancing my accounts, hand-washing jumpers, and scrubbing the tub. Sure, it’s supremely gratifying to bash out the last line of a novel I’ve been writing for years. But really, any bit of industry will do."
but throw sex in there too :)