What's it mean?
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- boobs
So I ran into an old college friend of mine who I hadn't seen in years when I was out shopping tonight. The store was about to close, so we didn't have much time to chat. But, she did manage to say something I want help decoding:
She said that she married late in life, and she felt lucky that she had two children, who were both born after she turned 40. The part that stuck in my mind was when she said, "I married a friend. A friend. We have an arrangement. So, you know, things have been kind of a struggle in a lot of ways."
Now, I didn't have time to ask for elaboration, but what do you suppose that meant?
- Glitterati_Duane0
That means you're in like Flinn buddy
- good answer.mrdobolina
- Good answer, but poor speeling.boobs
- yeah, that perv...Jaline
- marychain0
Gay friend
- Who's gay in your scenario? Man, woman, both?boobs
- it means she married her gay friend who is still in the closet. She enjoys being with him, but doesn't love himmarychain
- I seen it a hundred timesmarychain
- bingolvl_13
- Umm, then who's the father of the two wee ones?boobs
- He is.....k
johnny just learned the world isn't just black and white todaymarychain
- locustsloth0
It means that they've decided that living life with someone you like is better than having no one to love
- i'm calling Hallmark as we speaklocustsloth
- i think i just achieved a boner.ThePublics
- LOL_salisae_
- katekelly0
It means shes still lookin for love
- ukit0
She slept with her friend, got pregnant, and felt like they had to get married to support the kid
- _salisae_0
i've had friends ask me to be their 'backup plan' in case they didn't get married by a certain age.
- Hahahahaha.JackRyan
- 7!mrdobolina
- I have at least 3. Hey, don't joke about backup plans. I'm sure they'll come in handy one day...wait...katekelly
- it's nice you call them friends.Corvo
- I wouldn't blame them
; )VectorMasked - I'm pretty sure I should have evoked my backup plan... onto the backup backup planjoyride
- Corvo0
That means you feel guilty somehow? What have you done?
- VectorMasked0
She means she wants to bang other people. She wants to get it hard and soft.
There's regret and would like to start over again. She needs a 2nd chance for looooooooooove.
- JackRyan0
I thought that being your mates friend was the best case scenario in marriage, I have no idea what that could mean.
- _salisae_0
i hate it when people say 'you know' when they know you have no idea what they mean. it's very manipulative. kind of sneaky. i use it all the time.
- Are you still looking for scrolly border stuff?JackRyan
- lol.Corvo
- no thank heavens_salisae_
- don't laugh. i am designing packaging for soap. it could have happened to anyone._salisae_
- I was just going through some resources and found this old book that I scanned in...sorry it's too late.JackRyan
- send that shit on over. my instructions were to design it in the 30s label look._salisae_
- i missed the mark a little and have to do it again._salisae_
- sorry i cursed *_salisae_
- GIMME THAT F##CKING FLOURISH_salisae_
- Can your email handle large files?JackRyan
- i'll could send you log in details and you can upload it to my server._salisae_
- This is getting kinky.JackRyan
- hahahha_salisae_
- It's a little over 10mbs.
JackRyan - *emailing_salisae_
- flashbender0
she wants you to PIITB
- _salisae_0
my question is, are you interested in her or just pondering her situation?
- Ka-ching!
and the answer is...????VectorMasked - yes. (... oh)Corvo
- Ka-ching!
- Corvo0
That means you have no clue about what she meant.
- ernexbcn0
that must suck
- boobs0
I have some clues what she meant.
She is a very beautiful and attractive woman. Striking and lovely face; slender and smooth body; luxuriant head of brunette hair; tall and erect posture; serious and not flirty personality. She was the center of a great deal of sexual attention, and speculation, back in our college days.
Near as I can tell, she's even-handedly bisexual, with strong appetites both ways. She's had her heart broken by beautiful (fragile) women, and beautiful (strong and husky) men. Perhaps she has a bit of a doormat personality any way she plays it? Could be; I'm not completely sure.
But now she's a married woman living in the country with her husband and two children.
What was she saying to me, as she handed me her cell number?
- organic_grid0
She was says "Eat me, big boy"
- Jaline0
Hmmm...I thought this was about an open relationship, but maybe it's not because she mentions "struggles"? Who knows, though. It's probably the marriage-due-to-child explanation that ukit said.
Or they could have an open relationship, moreso due to her bisexuality or need for other relationships (or incompatibility, or it could have to do with her husband), but the couple feels they should be together in marriage for the children.
- acescence0
citizenship maybe? that could be "an arrangement"