15 years later...
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- sea_sea0
and here's to the memory of all our fathers and mothers who have past on... good or bad they did what they new best.
we tend to torture ourselves with tons of questions, but i do believe once someone moves on, they see our worries as unnecessary. in other words letting go is the only way, we too, can move on.thanks for sharing guys, moments like these are what keep me coming back to this joint. ;) group hug! lols
- drgs0
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- Projectile0
Yeh lost Dad at 14y/o then Mom at 25y/o. 5 yrs later I really wish I'd had a chance to get to know them better. At least I got to have a few bottles of wine with Mom as an adult and have a chat... and thank GOD my gf at the time loved to sneak off and do the same... she'd find out things that a mom can't really tell her son. Was still a snotty brat who hated my Dad when he went so only ever saw him as a parent, not a person. But god, still so many questions and no one to answer them.. no hope of grandparents for my kids one day... no one to go to for advice on anything and everything
But parents or no parents, life is fucking great!!!
- Hombre_Lobo0
hope you're ok sea sea. cant imagine what thats like.
its nice to put some time aside each year for friends or family who've passed. hugs hugs hugs!
- ghandolf0
Both parents gone here as well. Mom went first due to a medical condition, then 5 years later, my Dad was also suffering medically, and he missed his bride so much. The day he turned worse, I was notified by telephone to come quickly. I live 110 miles away, and the whole trip up there I was speeding. Every time I passed the Highway Patrol they were distracted or not looking at me. I finally arrived at his death bed, to whisper in his ear, that it's okay to go... his work here was finished - "Go, and be by your brides' side"... and he took his last deep breath of air, and left us.
So I don't buy the argument any longer, that they can't 'hear' you... and that there aren't 'forces' at work that we don't understand.
Blessings to all of us who have lost our parents, or any loved ones.