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- ********0
100 beers and cheers your way jevad
- ********0
do you still use your nic@jevad address? i sent an email there.
hang in there man. and for once jazx is right. wham will show us the way.
lifeinbinary
(May 16 05, 10:01)FOR ONCE? you bastard lifeinbinary. I'm always right.
*inserts brain back into head.
damn cheap band-aids!
- Point50
Wow. Just got floored by this thread. I hate to be a broken record Jevad, but I feel for you man. Even though it's hard, you gotta keep that head up and do for you for a while now. Make your happiness the focal point. Stay busy to keep your mind off of things. Time heals all... sorry man.
And on a more stupid note, hope you still come out to Vegas soon! I GOTS THE HOOK-UPS!
- jimeeboy510
sorry to hear that jevad...just remember this...
everything happens for a reason. while this door closes, another door will open for you -- don't miss it. stay strong and lay o
- Tara0
UGH. :(
- jimeeboy510
sorry to hear that jevad, but just remember this:
everything happens for a reason.
while one door closes on you, another door will open -- so don't miss it! stay strong and don't drown yourself on a liquid diet.
- CyBrainX0
Let's not have that "Everything happens for a reason" nonsense right now.
Did you talk to her? She at least owes you some serious explanations face to face. You really didn't have any clue?
Good luck.
- ********0
at the risk of repeating myself, anytime pal.
I've shed some tears recently too
NSFW, probably...
- ********0
MX, those are some African b00bs aren't they? Don't make me drool for African Man b00bies!
- jevad0
We were having problems, that much I knew. But divorce? At the very most I was expecting a separation...3 months or something to see where things were at...As much as I want to talk to her...as much as I want to hold her and never let her go...if this is her choice then so be it. It's the wrong choice as far as I am concerned, but if she doesn't want to be with me, and god dammit that hurts, then I have no right to try and keep her.
If you love something, set it free - if it never comes back, it wasn't meant to be.
- ********0
We were having problems, that much I knew. But divorce? At the very most I was expecting a separation...3 months or something to see where things were at...As much as I want to talk to her...as much as I want to hold her and never let her go...if this is her choice then so be it. It's the wrong choice as far as I am concerned, but if she doesn't want to be with me, and god dammit that hurts, then I have no right to try and keep her.
If you love something, set it free - if it never comes back, it wasn't meant to be.
jevad
(May 16 05, 10:21)Beautifully put, being able to see it like that just now alone will stand you in good stead.
- BonSeff0
take half her shit!
hehe
- gruntt0
i hate to sound cynicnal but if she is going to go about this situation without much regard to how you're feeling (taking the dog, presenting you with papers out of the blue, etc) I would suggest you hire a lawyer... just to cover your own ass.
stay strong.
- ********0
Lawyer = Necessary Evil
- kingjulien0
Jevad, I've got a lot of my own problems, so I won't pretend I have any answers for you, but remember that the initial shock and disgust and anger and rage and confusion are all perfectly healthy feelings, so when you begin to question your sanity assure yourself of that. Also, remember the best thing you can do for yourself now is to maintain perspective. Things like eating well and getting enough sleep are crucial. So is exercise. My first reaction to breakups is always to self-medicate, but that only numbs things--but a good physical activity, like hiking or playing basketball, allows a much healthier catharsis. It won't solve anything, but it might prevent you from attacking the mailman or going to the bar wearing nothing but speedo's and a beret tilted to the side.
If all that fails, a bottle of vicodin and two hookers seems to relieve some anixeties. That and a double feature of Weekend at Bernie's and Brewster's Millions and the first season of Miami Vice.
In all seriousnes, my condolences. I hope things work out for you...
- jevad0
second laugh of the day - thankyou
- blaw0
sorry, too.
sending positive thoughts your way.
- liquid0
I just signed on to this.... I am so sorry to hear this bro, anytime you need me...you have my number....msn....
I'll be praying for you... sometimes you do have to let it go.... but marriage is not something you let go.... marriage is something you work on.... day by day...and you know this...she doesnt..... ask her if she would be willing to go to counseling....not necessarily to reconcile but just to have closure if that is indeed what happens.... it will answer all of your unanswered questions...and maybe just maybe ....give the both of you a fighting chance
I may be a right wing nut.... but I am a praying nut...and I am praying for the both of you right now...
- soda0
i agree with the fella about the lawyer. Cover yourself as quickly as you possibly can and don't do or sign anything now you might regret later. She seems to have made a massive decision about your lives without you already... you need to look out for your own interests or at least hold off on any decisions until you are out of shock.
And get your fucking dog back for a start.
- ********0