marriage?
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- buddylee
I’ve been seeing this girl for quite some time now and the last two weeks she’s kind of been stressing that our relationship needs to take the next step forward. By that I’m under the impression that she wants to get married or end whatever it is we have together.
For those of you not aware, this specific female is a virgin and true to her beliefs.
Now as for me, I am not sure. I love this girl with of my heart and would hate to have things end this way, but I do have some doubts.
Anyway, I wanted to get some opinions on the marriage things from the good people of NT.
- mrdobolina0
same thing happened to me a few years back. don't let her pressure you into marriage man. Only do it if you really want it.
- mogwai0
you are about to get dumped ...........
or married. you choose.
- gruntt0
if you have doubts, don't do it.
period.
- _salisae_0
whoa! and whoa.
i don't think i could possibly garner enough info from this thread to help you decide.
you gotta do what you feel in your heart is right.
*ring-a-dings wedding bell
- johndiggity0
just say no™
- mogwai0
how old are you?
- k0na_an0k0
well. if you have any doubt, even the slightest, you prolly shouldn't pop the question.
how long have you been dating? can you sit and have a talk with her and tell her that you don't want this to end, but are a bit scared of the whole marriage thing. ask for some time and understanding. then, if you feel you're ready pop the question early next year, that way the wedding won't be until the year after that's summer. so it gives you plenty of time to prepare and make sure it's right.
g/l.
- buddylee0
I am 25.5 years of age and come from a family that wasn't all that big into the marriage thing.
- canuck0
getting dumped or getting married, either way your in for a rough time.
- jevad0
don't be pressured EVER into anything like that...you have to really *want* to or it will all end in tears....
- k0na_an0k0
hmmm... 25.5. sounds like you and i need to go to vegas and get ourselves some hookers.
if you can't get her off your mind while your in a five way with me and a couple midgets, well then my friend, you're in love.
either way it's a win win situation.
- ********0
you say she had an ass like augustina? wtf are you waiting for?
jk.
for real, only do it if you'r heart is 150% into it and you're bursting at the seams.
- buddylee0
One of the cool things about this girl is, she really doesn't care about how we get married. She has mentioned to me that she wouldn't mine filing the paper work and that's it. No big ceremony or anything.
- Chickenhands0
Get married and get fucking
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- mogwai0
but women are always into the marriage thing. and rightfully so. man what it all boils down to, what life is all about really, is having kids and getting married. thats why we are here on this planet. if not her, then it will be someone. ask yourself this. would you like to get old with this person? old and wrinkled. would you like to have a family with this person?
- gabriel20
if you're asking random people on a message board if you should do it or not then there's already some serious problems...
- GreedoLives0
move in with her first...see if you can live with her.
- Gilt0010
Have you done everything (and I mean EVERYTHING) that you've wanted to do for yourself? I know it sounds selfish, but it has to be asked. Have you done all those little things that you have planned for yourself over the years.
I'd highly recommend discussing with your family too. Something I didn't do when I got married 6 years ago.
- -leah-0
go for it, you can always get divorced later :P
but honestly like other people have said, go with your heart.
- -sputnik-0
i'm with jevad...do NOT do it if you have any doubts, which you admittedly do.
i'm getting hitched jan 8th...w00t! never pressured him in any way and it happened more naturallly and beautifully than i could had ever imagined.
follow your heart!