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- ********0
Answer for you simply: NO
- exador10
congrats buddy..
marriage aint easy, but it is definitely worth every moment if you're with the right person..i'd been with my wife for about 6 or 7 years as a couple when i finally bought the ring..
the wedding of one of her friends came up, and we all went..
i sat with her family, since she was in the wedding party..
after the church ceremony, her aunts surrounded me and were giving me the 'sooooo...when will it be your turn...?"
i evaded them, and split back to her parents house to chill out before the reception...
back at the house, her dad and i were out having a smoke, and i said...
hey man..your sisters were giving me the 3rd degree about when i should ask your daughter..
he looks at me, laughs and says,...
'well....thats a good question...
when ARE you going to ask?it was perfect..
i shook his hand and said i'd just been looking for the right time to ask his permission, and that i had a ring allready...
he loved that..
laughed outloud and said...
'you've been with her for almost 7 years...
OF COURSE you have my permission!
he shook my hand again, and raced inside to tell my mother in law and my brother in law..
i came in from my smoke, and it was like a little celebration..all smiles and everything..
couldn't have gone better if i had planned it..let me tell you all something..
having inlaws that you're as close to as your own parents is something more precious than gold.anyhow buddy, i can only hope that it all goes just as well with you...
all the best to you and yours, and remember...
don't be surprised if teh new inlaws want their daughter to have a traditional wedding...
i learned that when all is said and done, the wedding really is mostly for the families involved (especially the brides) more so than for the couple themselves..
and although it can be expensive, it sure is one hell of a party..bigtime cheers and congrats dude
ex
- ********0
nope. take a step back and think, you are young still.
- shaft0
I don't thinkI would stay in a relationship with a woman who needs parents' permission and priest's confirmation to have sex with the person she loves.
I guess this comes with the culture/religion she's coming from. She's probably been being brainwashed since she was a child.
Sex and love go together smoothly and I'd rather call a sinner someone who messes other people's minds saying that having it is wrong. Just be careful and responsible when doing it.
I want my woman to be able to take her own decisions, not leave these to religion or television.
Also, however this might sound awkward, I don't think I would marry a virgin. There's nothing wrong with a girl being one, it's just that she's still immature in some vital aspects of life and she doesn't know what she wants yet. But everyone's different, your girl might not need prior experiences and will not miss these in future.Did you try throwing dice? :)
- chossy0
I know exactly how and where I will propose to my future wife and I have had the idea for over a decade.
I will also be seeking the approval of her family first.
- ********0
wait, what is she has no family unit chossy? or do you know this chick?
- chossy0
no I am not seeing anyone I am talking hypothetically.
- industry730
If you do not love her. DONT MARRY HER. that would be the worse than breaking up.
Also if your beliefs are not inline with heres, then you should end the relationship. You'll both end up trying to change each other and both fail to do so.
- r_gaberz0
Congratulations on having a person you love buddylee.
I for one didn't think that these hardcore religous women really existed (freaks excluded) and while I am sure I could love such a person to a certain extent. We would always have major ideological problems. to be honest if someone said to me that he/she can't move together with someone unless they are married... I would look at this person and wave my hand 5 milimeters in front of my face.... in my head. In reality I would of course act all nice and understand.
But if her strong believes are no problem for you and you really love her and can imagine raising a family with her (well.. you don't have to raise one if you don't feel like it).... ask her.
Again.. I don't know you, but can you really click with a person who wouldn't let you touch them and move in with you unless you get married.. to the extent that you want to live with this person forever?
- r_gaberz0
ah shit.. didn't see you already proposed.
Congratulations buddylee!
- ********0
ahhh cool