Relationship Question
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- MondoMorphic0
CallerNo9 - no, I haven't yet. I think this is a conversation we will have this weekend though.
- paraselene0
i am the man in my relationship, my husband complains that i'm not emotional enough. some women are just that way!
- that said, the lying is beyond the pale, as is that kind of consumer debt. that could fuck up your life. run!paraselene
- wow, that is a rare luxury para. most women i knew are overly emotional.. :/janne76
- the secks must be great then!OSFA
- There's another one out there!!!Jaline
- what? you are so emotional... like this big nurturing mother figure.Khurram
- and i mean that in the most affectionate way. :)Khurram
- MondoMorphic0
^^ More and more, it seems those gender stereotypes are just not right.
Yeah, there are a lot of things about this relationship that could fuck up my life! hahahaha
- visionary0
stop being a little bitch
- MondoMorphic0
hahahaha - it's probably not appropriate to dump her via phone, email, or text while she's at work. It's going to have to be this weekend. ;)
- visionary0
move your stuff out first
- MondoMorphic0
It's my place, so we'll need to move her stuff out.
- you actually round up some qbn'ers to help move her shit out? good work, my man!_salisae_
- wordsinyourmouth0
dude, if i were you i would fucking RUN FOR THE HILLS. this girl doesn't sound like marriage material AT ALL
- janne760
$90k
i have a total debt of 7k and i believe that is much...!!!
:O
- she needs help on her spending.. psychology..janne76
- and janne's debt is all drugs, alcohol and male escortsOSFA
- he even beats them with chainsuberdesigner
- OSFA0
So you're breaking up with her this weekend? Keep us posted!
Oh, and don't forget the pics, here's a site if you don't want to post them here...
- wordsinyourmouth0
hahahaha
- MondoMorphic0
- Trade up for Famkeletters2
- Id hit Famkeutopian
- Anyone would.Jaline
- P.S. you probably don't want to post pictures.Jaline
- you look like you should be with the one in the middle, and your GF looks like your daughter.Antonelli
- You can do better.fate_
- why the fuck this picture?
famewhore.tank02 - That's awesome !kgvs72
- Are you sure you're not gay?max_prophet
- Just because I like to have lots of gay sex - that doesn't make me gay!! hahahahaMondoMorphic
- hahahahhhaaaha
silly picturejimzyk
- letters20
Best advice I ever got... Find someone you really like talking to.
Everything else will eventually fade. If you don't love talking to her, move on.
- d_rek0
update:
First, i hope everything works out for better Mondo, i truly do. It sucks to be confused and scared and to have feelings for someone and not know what to do. You're heart will tell you what to do and everything will work out in the end - for better or for worse, but it will all happen that way for a reason.
But, i have had a bout of luck in my current situation. It has been rather emotional week for me with my GF and her ex-situation. I had been trying to figure out what I needed to do to get my girl to understand how much it hurts for her to talk and see her ex, which i believe i had done a rather good job of, and had been beating myself up emotionally. I told her how I felt and put the ball in her court, so it was up to her to figure out where her laurels lie.
Fortunately for me her ex did exactly the right thing the other day: he showed his true colors. The guy self destructed in the worst way possible... and i didn't have to do anything to provoke it. It just worked out that way!
So Mondo, there is hope and again it will all work itself out. I was lucky enough to be able to have this thing run its course and it worked out for the better.
- So you didnt violently ass rape her then like you planned?autoflavour
- MondoMorphic0
^^ I'm happy that your situation resolved itself...and there is something to be said for patience. Allowing exes to linger is such a tricky thing because it could be nothing or it could mean a whole lot (why does he/she still need this person in their life, why won't they let go, etc). In my experience, little good comes from lingering exes.
- OSFA0
so.... did you have to call the cops?
- MondoMorphic0
Well, at long last, it's done. My girlfriend and I were talking about something that was rather trivial, but for some reason, she kept acting like a pissy brat, and it occured to me what a monumental waste of time this was. I can't force this woman to communicate with me, and really, I shouldn't have to. If she wants to behave like a child, she can do it on somebody else's dime. So, we're through.
Thanks to everybody for their thoughtful advice and suggestions. This has not been easy (I imagine the real shitty part is still to come), but talking it through on here has helped.
Oh, incedentally, while on the way to an appt with our relationship counsellor, I got to talking to this VERY hot internal medicine Dr. She asked me out for drinks, and while I told her I was in a relationship and couldn't, I think I may eventually need to run into hot, rich, doctor lady again!! (and the circle of life continues). Hahaha
- forbes0
at long last.. well done!
now go get sum from the doc
- Khurram0
We attract what we are.
- Well sort of. I'm glad my girlfriend isn't a poorly shaven bald guy.joewigdahlphoto
- *needs to swtich deodorant*Peter
- MondoMorphic0
^^ There's some truth to that, so if I keep attracting nuts, it just means I'm a nut!
"The one thing common to all my dissatisfying relationships me."