Ever been bullied?
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- monospaced0
If only every little kid could have a luck dragon.
- cruddlebub0
Yeah I was bullied a whole heap at high school/secondary school. Mainly the first 3 and a half years. They were bastards, beat me, used me to help them with their homework then told the teachers I'd copied theirs, verbally were horrid, broke into my locker and stole my Panasonic cd Walkman that id worked and saved for all summer.
The teachers were told, they did nothing, the bullies used to do most of it when the teachers left the room, or in the corridors. My mum took me to a parents evening once and made me take off my top to show them my bruises, they made accusations that it was happening at home, fucking shitty man.
My mum made all the effort with it all and went to these kids homes to speak to the parents. Only one helped, she was the mother of the tallest and the most verbal of the bullies. She owned a corner shop and her son helped himself to fags, money, food even rolls of scratch cards. She told my mum to tell me that all I could do was look after myself.
My dad was useless, never got on with the man...
It took me a huge amount of something to do something about it. I waited until they next started on me, in an art class, giving me grief about pocket money, so I turned to biggest one and said that the only reason he got £20 a week as his mother hated him. He didn't take to kindly to that, got up, pulled me off my chair and hit me in the eye. With all my power, anger and rage I fucking smashed that cunt right on the nose! I used to swim for the county and was no string bean, he hit his head off the wall....goodnight!
The teachers suspended me, mum was cool about it, dad wasn't but I didnt care! When I came back to school all the bullies wanted to be my best mate!
It was far better after that and I suppose it shaped me into who I am, I don't take shit, but I'm not one to dish it out either. I suppose it's down to how you delt with it at the time. I'll be honest and there was a point where I wanted to top myself, but that's cowardly and selfish. I put it all down to my mum being the one who helped me through it, that and my right hook!
- Jesus, dude, glad you got the best of the asshole. From what you hear about these days, what you went through sounds like enough to push todays kids over the edge.elahon
- enough to push todays kids over the edge, sad to say. Fuck bullies.elahon
- Yeah they are all cunts, group mentalities, get them on their own and they brick it. I remember hearing the rest say...cruddlebub
- "Fuck.... What a punch" after I hit the prick! Hahaha and all the class cheering!! I burst into tears!cruddlebub
- I have a 6 year old who's been getting teased by some of his class friends. I've taught him how to punch from a young age...cruddlebub
- But told him never to go around being horrible and I can put my hand on my heart and say I know he hasn't...cruddlebub
- His school report was excellent, and I am proud of him. If these kids keep picking on him, I've told him to give them 3 warnings...cruddlebub
- Warnings... After the third... Swing away Eli! Haha. Hopefully he won't need to as I've contacted the school...cruddlebub
- Best of luck with your son's situation. My boy is 6, too, but nothing like this has come up for him. *knock on woodelahon
- the teachers have been good, i'd noticed a change in his mood as he was getting angry very quickly...cruddlebub
- he told me what was going on. its been about a week now without any more. the teachers have had to tell these kids off a lot.cruddlebub
- lot, they must of got bored.cruddlebub
- detritus0
Last time I remember someone trying to bully me at school, I was about 13. A couple of local kids used to follow me and my other British chum home, making our lives hell.
I lost it one time, and found myself ba5hing the head of the bigger guy repeatedly against a car door, Vinnie Jones style, screaming at him like some berzerker.
He never bothered me again after that.
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Funnily enough, the major school bully guy, who was part of one of the local 'bad' families (smugglers, etc), who scared the living shit out of everyone and whose path I only ever managed to cross once (I accidentally threw a half-full box of Ribena juice drink at his head, which was fun), ended up marrying someone who worked for my Dad.
So at my Dad's wedding a decade or so ago, I was perplexed to see this once-brutal mass of testosterone smile at me and politely ask how I was getting on with things, haha
- feel0
i've been bullied countless times at school, it was painfull and stressing, today I have many mental/social problems.
last time I saw my bully he was working at gas station putting gas in my car.
the other one was not walking right (he had a car accident where he killed his friend and lost some movement on his legs) and was working at a small ass dinner place.thats what you get for bullying people that didn't do anything to you.
sweet revange, hope they die poor and hopeless.
- Milan0
When I first moved to Canada, I was in 8th grade and didn't know much English. I could understand it, but couldn't speak well enough yet.
First week of school, some kid made fun of me as I was walking to class. I ignored it. The next day, he did the same thing in front of a couple of girls as I was grabbing things out of my locker. I can't remember exactly what he said, but I know it was some nasty shit about me and my family. It pissed me off so much that I went up in his face and started yelling and swearing at him in Serbian. He didn't understand a single word, but I could tell that he got the message. He was frozen stiff with a :O look on his face. He never tried to bully me after that.
- nb0
This thread reminds me of the new Sun Kil Moon album.
- sureshot0
Let me remind you what we fuckers did to FOUTY.
- detritus0
I once bullied a kid, without really appreciating what it was I was doing.
An English kid, not very offensive - christ, I can't even remember why I and the others didn't like him.
I'd just gotten a printer (Citizen colour dot Matrix, oh yeaah) and would dabble with things in Deluxe Paint.
I made up badges and a membership/allegiance form for the 'AWA', which stood for the 'Anti W---- Association' (W--- being his surname). Got a load of the kids in my class to sign up (poor kid wasn't exactly popular) and ... well, can't remember much more than that - it was a pointless secret cabal that didn't do anything other than exist for a non-purpose.
My form teacher found one of the forms.
I was always a bit of a twat in school - always in trouble, but I had good relationships with the teachers who weren't fundamentally assholes - they knew I wasn't a total toad, I knew where to draw the line most of the time.
My form teahcer was one of my favourite teachers for this reason - he'd throw me out of class pretty much every lesson because I was being a show-off dick or whatever, but we always got on and he was a solid teacher.
He called me ‘Evil’.
At that moment I took a step back from myself and realised what an utter, utter shit I'd been.
Parents informed, made to come in - personal apologies made.
Mine was sincere and heartfelt - i felt terrible. I have no doubt he thought I was just filling in gaps, saying words to appease, none of it meant.
Still feel bad about this episode to this day.
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I bet he's a multimillionaire somewhere now.
- maybe you should make some apology signs and put them up in his neighborhoodcannonball1978
- haha, this was all 20-odd years ago, in a country a thousand miles away. I've no idea where he is now.detritus
- lowimpakt0
the thoughts of anyone getting bullied makes me angry as fuck.
i'm really sorry for anyone that had to go through this at school and I hope you have or can find a way to deal with it.
- cbass990
Gym class, 7th grade, the teachers would go in their office and shut the door while 30 minutes remained for us to get showered and dressed...That was plenty of time to do whatever the fuck you wanted..
So this kid and his two friends would come push me up against the lockers...his two friends had mustaches and were in small engine classes etc..they looked 25.
I started leaving early and somehow the teacher noticed and sent me to the principle's office. I then told them I was leaving because I was getting beat up in gym class every day. The next day the bully came up to me with his two friends and said "you narked on me!" I didn't even know what narked meant. Again, they pushed me around and finally, an older classmate stepped in and said "if you ever fuck with this kid again, you're dead." They never touched me again and I became friends with all of the older kids..
Years later, the fucker requested to be my friend on Facebook. Go figure.
- monospaced0
I love going back to my hometown during the holidays and seeing those bullies all fat, working dead-end jobs, serving me food and drinks on Christmas Eve. They know what I'm thinking, and I know what they're thinking just by the pathetic, bitter and resigned looks on their faces. Feels great.
- lol i can see mono's satisfied face in my head already.pango
- I like tipping them at least 75% too, just to see their faces. I know it's mean, but it's my payback.monospaced
- Better watch out they don't spit or put shit in your food...elahon
- What, for tipping an insane amount and being a patron of their establishment? Please.monospaced
- fadein110
I have been bullied quite intensively for 15 years on QBN - still have zero anxiety about it.
- pinkfloyd0
Googled the name of the kid who teased me freshman year and found this:
http://www.10tv.com/content/stor…
Turns out he's a serial thief, can't find his jail mug which I saw a year ago.
- detritus0
haha, i Googled the name of the kid I bullied and was horrified to see that someone with the same name had recently been sent to prison for paedophilia.
‘Thankfully’ this guy was some eighty year old, not the kid from my class :)
- monospaced0
Googled one of our high school bullies. He's the fat fuck I figured he was, and he's wearing a cheap ass suit at what is probably a friend's wedding. So sad.
- sad, because he was the coolest jock for like... 3 yearsmonospaced
- O_O i guess he really roughed you up when you a kid...pango
- no, he was just an asshole in high school, stole a calculator from me, mostly verbal bullshitmonospaced
- he looks like a douchebagpinkfloyd
- oh... your wording sound like you are holding intensive grudge towards him...pango
- he was just the first one to come to mind, i don't even think about these guysmonospaced
- oh forgot that you wordings are just normally more intensive then most people...pango
- maybe... just maybe... that's why you get into fights on qbn more often than most... lolpango
- annnnnd i might have said too much.....pango
- I only get in fights here when people attack me for no reason.monospaced
- i think it's the wording man :]
people interpret it as if you are hostile if they don't know you... just saying.pango - show me an examplemonospaced
- not that i know you that well. but enough to know you don't mean to aggravate.pango
- hmmm.... i'll keep that in mind and bring it back here when i see it next time.pango
- People are often offended by rationality and being wrong. I can't blame them for being so stupid.monospaced
- i think you meant "you can't blame me for them being stupid"
cuz... yes you can blame them for being stupid...pango - :\ how about this thread, 20th post. about autistic....pango
- can't blame someone for something they can't controlmonospaced
- uhhh... how was my post about autism inflammatory, or strongly worded?monospaced
- I was only joking about how I'm bullied on QBN about being autistic. I'm playing along.monospaced
- ya not the best example...but it's an example of you trying to be funny but could easily be interpreted it wrongly.pango
- oh you were?
see!!!pango
- cannonball19780
My elementary school bully died of a heroin overdose.
- pango0
most of bullies had a rough life and that's the only way they know how to make them self feel better??
- It's a vicious circle. Stop the violence people!!ukit2
- it's been said that most bullies were abused (sexually/physically...ohhhhhsnap
- pango0
so here comes another question.
would you have become a better person if you didn't get bullied?- For me, I think yespinkfloyd
- hell nomonospaced
- I think I'm stronger and have more empathy because of it.Akagiyama
- for me. Noop. I usually avoid conflicts pretty well. but if anyone cross me intentionally, I consider that they're asking for it.pango
- and i'm pretty shameless .... so bullies doesn't really effect me mentally.pango
- noutopian
- _niko0
No such thing as bullying when i was a kid, tough neighbourhood i suppose, you got beat up and did a lot of beating up in return, just the way it was, you took it and dished it out and nobody was a pussy about it.
Different times i guess.
- back when men were men and kids were also menscarabin
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- lol, perfectscarabin