Women these days.
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- hektor9110
its easier to get along with females once you learn to stop caring about stupid shit...
- ali0
'It seems that women do not like to be complimented or treated "special" in any way.'
- Of course they do like everyone in the world it really depends if you are being genuine or just saying/doing things with ulterior motives.
'Was Slick Rick ahead of his time when he said
"treat em like a prostitute?". '- and that's what you'll end up with. Sounds to me like you're not ready to get involved with someone just yet... or is it just sex you're looking for?
If this thread is an attempt at understanding women - good luck with that I'm a woman and I don't even understand myself half the time.- you a woman? post a pic to prove it! :Ppango
- i like a good GFE with the prostitutes i hire.ebertzjaw
- i think if you re-read the thread and use some reading comprehension you may find that I mentioned companionship.zoozoo
- YAY!! ALI you made it! I can def vouch she's a woman!sadpanda
- Ali is all woman. Treasure the golden advice from an incomprehensible sex.Hombre_Lobo
- kota0
this thread is some highschool ass shit
- sea_sea0
how did i miss this?! is sadpanda still winning?! :)
- oey0
I actually think this is a good thread.
Even if I can't agree with some perspectives, very interesting opinions came up.
lot's of crap, including mine is always healthy to clean the thoughts.
And I totally relate when Sadpanda says she sometimes doesn't understandf herself (how was it exactly?) if I establish a relation with what Scarabin writes and how sometimes I am.you can be rational about things, even emotions, but sometimes you can't really think in the moment and you go all heart.
both ways still being yourself.
also, I think searching is not good at all, personally I like when I bump into someone or if someone starts to be object of my attention because the way they are (are in Portuguese can be two different but related and important things).
if not like that I don't care about girls at all.
sometimes occasional things happen because of a possibility in a specific moment called "the moment of it's now".sometimes girls say things that are really a good moment to suggest something alternative just as an excuse to go to some other place and walk and talk...
whatever man, I don't have game.
it's just sometimes is one thing other times is something else.some women you're just gonna (hopefully) sleep with, other women are to date or to live with...or not.
i bet if you have habits, if you go to a specific bar, someone notices you and sometimes it take time.
it has to be between two full moons.
- oey0
you also have the moment called "moment of it could be now" but it's always better to continue a nice conversation and wait for the confirmation sentence that precedes a moment of silence and leaves no doubt that maybe you could do something else and by that I don't mean necessarily sex.
then you have to make your move
- sea_sea0
ok, i kinda read the thread..
and going back to your original question zoo, here is my opinion.yes there are girls that want to be treated well, those are the ones that are looking for the same things you are. all the rest either don't know wtf they want or maybe they do, it's just not in synch with you.
you're clearly "looking" and that's when all you'll find is a booty call. if you're out thinking you're gonna find a meaningful realtionship at a bar, well that shit don't happen. especially because alcohol is involved. most likely the girl that you'll end up having a true connection with, you will meet in a total random way, when you least expect it. or better yet, you already know her, and you haven't seen that yet. ;)
and i say this because it sounds like you want a relationship and not just a booty call. am i wrong?
figure out what you want in a partner and make sure you can find those qualities within yourself. as humans, i believe we are wired to naturally want a partner, no shame in that. and if you were with someone for 7 years well that says a lot about you already. so maybe take some time and work on yourself first and once you feel good, i bet everything you want will follow.
does that make sense?btw, this happened to me, i broke off an 8 year relationship with a guy that i thought i loved, but in reality we we're just friends. it was tough, but once i managed to do that, i spent some time working on me, getting my head back on straight and shit. then out of no where, when i felt good about me (cause don't forget we project that energy) i started talking to a friend, someone i already knew but never saw in that light. now we have the most amazing connection, we both are still kinda in shock, we didn't expect it at all! that my friend is the sweetest kind of love there is. and yes, he is super creative and romantic, treats me with respect and love, like i should be treated, and I fuckin' love it dammit. i expect nothing less at this point.
- zoozoo0
I would want a booty call mixed with a caring i got your back and will help you type of thing.
not looking for steady work if you know what I mean and I mean having a long-term stressful relationship.
- zoozoo0
- THEN DANCE MY FRIEND, DANCE!!! And good luck with the ladies ;)necromation
- hahazoozoo
- best episode dress down fridayteh
- qoob0
- cruddlebub0
fuck them all...
and then fuck 'um again.
- sine0