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- ifeltdave
relationships. whose in one, and whose got advice for making one not suck complete donkey ass?
- e-pill0
while you are fapping away to internet porn she is fucking other guys.
- zing!pockets
- and people say I'm meanmonospaced
- I supposed I asked for that one lolifeltdave
- why bad mouth about your ex wife?powershot
- haha good one e-pillbigtrickagain
- DRIFTMONKEY0
1> How long have you been together?
2> How far away is she?
3> How long will you be apart?
4> Disregard questions 1-3 and just find someone else.- 2yrs, about 1000 miles, til 2011, FUCKifeltdave
- ha!Projectile
- duckofrubber0
who's
- bigtrickagain0
i was in one a couple of years ago. it makes it easier if you can drive up on the weekends and relieve the tension that's been building, if you know what i mean.
- whereRI0
im about to be in one, 6 hr flight distance, 6hr time dif too.
not looking forward to it really, its like you get worst of both worlds
- d_rek0
I tried this a couple of times and both times they failed miserably.
The LDR (long distance relationship) started off well enough, good intentions and all, but soured relatively quickly. Phone calls became less and less frequent, as well as the amount of trips either party was willing to make to 'visit' eachother.
The first ended up in "So I met someone else..." on her end. The second time I saw what was happening and just ended it.
My experience, unless this person is your soul mate, then give it up. It's much cheaper and much less stressful this way.
- sad but true. time to get real and get back out therehans_glib
- CALLES0
and her being german didn't help either
- Kiggen0
I'm in a longdistance relationship.
Been together almost 4 years, with half a year long distance.
She's German to ;)
- Kiggen0
Oh yeah, i live in Antwerp, she in Milan. I'm a freelancer so that makes it easy for me to visit.
- CALLES0
oh yeah... and dont even get me started with airports
- lvl_130
i did it for a year. it sucked not being with her, but it made the time we did get to spend with each other that much better. long story short, i moved back to be with her 3 years ago. we have now been married for 2 years :)
- MHDC0
- iCanHasQBN0
out of sight, out of mind.
- CALLES0
this is so weird. i am facebooking with that girl for the first time ever... right now!
- OSFA0
who?
- cannonball19780
Been there. Done that. Advice: unless there are active plans to move near each other, keep it casual, despite what your boner is telling your heart.
- ifeltdave0
@cannonball: we've got a time table for when we'll be back in the same city. Establishing that helped I think.
- what about contracts and markup fees? have you estimated for hold-ups?iCanHasQBN
- oh sorry, thought it was a client.iCanHasQBN
- bigtrickagain0
if she even brings up a "free pass" until you're together again, let her go.