NYC Women
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- Khurram0
So era404, are you saying the women in NYC are just using you for sex?? and wont commit to you?? Is that what is happening here?
You are being used for your sex?
- mirrorball0
piece of pish, be irish ;)
- armsbottomer0
the ideal ones (smart, not vein, creative, etc.) are out there, you just have to mix in with the right crowds. i had lost all hope until quite recently.
- MrDinky0
1. Career-mindedness: its about balance. there are so many people out there who are career minded but also balances their love life. No women I met sudden who hit 30s say, I need a relationship now. More or less just seeing if they share common goal the time and for the future.
2. Quantity over quality: there are more good women here and in comparison to west coast women, they are treated like dirt here. My experience is west coast is that there are way more compeition for women than east.
3. Competitiveness: everyone seeks perfection. You are seeking the same (wholesome / down to earth etcetc)
4. Grass-is-always-greener syndrome: trust. if you trust, you wouldnt think that.
- akrokdesign0
maybe try match.com or something.
- Lifeinvector0
Why generalize? It could be any one of a million reasons. You just haven't yet met the one you're looking for.
- ismith0
I didn't bother to catch up on the thread, but just think about this: there's actually a fair chance that if you'll run into a girl in the same predicament, from a similar place, who'll be tops for you.
- plusminusbox0
same for men in nyc. or any city for that matter.
- cenovi0
Only the fittest survive in NYC. Dating is difficult in large cities because there is a paradox, most people that are single want to stay single in order to keep their options open until they meet mr/ms right, but at the same time they crave to be in a long-term relationship. They stay in a mode of desire (always wanting something they cannot have) and constantly keep raising their standards.
Equality speaking, there are TONS of people like you in large cities, so it's a matter of time before you meet someone with the same issues, and you will instantly connect.
It's important to choose wisely and go to places less obvious to meet men/women (that doesn't involve alcohol and dancing). Try walking a cute small-breed dog in central park, that always says "sexually secured and willing to commit". Just my 2 cents.
- TheBlueOne0
Oddly enough, I've had more women hit on me since I got married, than when I was single.
So my suggestion is to get married.
- MrDinky0
era404 meet plusminusbox
plusminusbox meet era404
- megE0
I'm trying to figure out why I thought about it?
- ^^MrDinky
- i sawmegE
- i like dark haired skinny guys - you dont have to be able to lift a lot of weightmegE
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*quietly grabs hair dyeismith - hahahamegE
- i'm dark haired, skinny AND can lift weight. And i have an iPhone.Khurram
- Thought about what?era4O4
- is having an iPhone your status symbol qualifier?lambsy
- hiatus0
This guys says it best:
- kelpie0
I can understand era404's problem, I myself am starting to get a little 'hollowed out' by being relentlessly used for sex by these career women types. Sometimes a guy just wants to walk through the park in the autumn evening sun, hand in hand, but instead its just thrash thrash thrash, bang bang, wail wail, hammer hammer thump thump and a quick wash and peck on the cheek and on to the next one. My God in heaven I am tired to my very core. Will somebody please save me??!
- consider a monastery brotherkelpie
- Have you seen the "Chicks and Cosplay" thread?TheBlueOne
- bwahaha! You are so much more eloquent than me!Khurram
- if you insist on the strap-on, you'll keep having that 'hollowed out' feelinglambsy
- era4O40
Last night, I went to a bar with some friends and a table full of girls next to mine were being insulting and prudish and, when they weren't hypercritical of the conversation, kept asking me and my friends to buy them drinks. Three of the four of them let their egos run wild, the last was actually quite nice. When my buddy signaled for the waitress, I told him to put his money away. Tired of the ruse, I said "we were trying to be nice and have a decent conversation but you seem hell-bent on being insulting and rude. My guess is that you all have boyfriends and are just trying to see if you still have enough sex appeal to get guys to buy you drinks."
The nice one then confessed that they all had boyfriends but they were on a "girls night out" and left their men at home.
Shaking my head, I told them that, in all honesty, were marginally attractive and could've been considered beautiful if only they had decent personalities. I recommended that next time they try being kind and warm and that they'll dupe more guys into buying them drinks if they drop the egotistical act and try to be more sincere...if that was even possible for them.
They left shortly afterward. But not before the most attractive of the four called me a number of names and the nicest of the four whispered an apology and agreed with me. I haven't a clue why/how NYC or metropolitan society convinced these girls that they could be utterly abhorrent to complete strangers in exchange for replenishing their egos, conning people out of their money, giving false hope and truly believing that THAT is how to act desirable. It's honestly disgusting.
But I digress. You've all (most) been helpful in clearing my mind. I will proceed no further in this business. I have bought golden opinions from all sorts of people, which would be worn now in their newest gloss, not cast aside so soon.
Lastly, I have to remember to not use this username when embarking on diatribes as responder's exchange of my "O" for a zero will truly screw with my company's SEO/reputation. LOL. I need to create an alias for such conversations on QBN. Any suggestions?
- ceiling_cat0
ceiling_cat 2.0? =)