Situation Help
- Started
- Last post
- 27 Responses
- soseeme
So my friend is casually going out with this girl who I like. Me and this girl ended up making out last week and I really enjoyed her company. She told me that she doesn't want anything serious with my friend. She also promised me that we would find a time and place for a getaway. No else knows that we have been fooling around, but I can keep up with the masquerade.
Should this keep going and see what happens? I feel bad that I could end up ruining both friendships.
- soseeme0
Any advice?
- airey0
is this how qbn ends? an agony aunt column. really? fucking genius.
we'll let's break it down. you're asking an open forum if it's cool to fuck around with your friend's girlfriend / special-friend / whatever the kids are calling it. the fact is that most people will say 'fuck no' and then add 'you fucking idiot'. but time and again it's been proven to me that many of the people telling you not to, would in fact go there themselves. so the moral dilemma is, do you a: be the better person you would hope to be and not go there (and treat the already crossed line as a mistake) or b: take the low road and go for the action. there is an option c: find out if your friend is serious or not, if not then see where the land lies. option d would be to shag her, kill her, kill your friend and then live in a forest someplace down in south america.
- airey0
so going at it with your friends girl is something you don't consider a mistake. i think it's safe to say your moral compass is somewhat off from the average. are you really just asking for a bunch of people here to say 'go for it' cause i have no fucking idea why you'd be asking for advice when you're kinda coming off as a friend nobody would want.
just my 2 cents.
- soseeme0
The thing between them two is nothing serious and she has told me that she doesn't want anything serious with him either. He has told me the same.
I'm not looking for a go for it advice. I'm just looking for different viewpoints.
- Shaney0
mac or pc?
- fabricio2k0
Dude, dont do it ok? Its bad, you have to put your morals above anything else, any summer flick, any temptation, really! It doesnt matter if your friend/and/or/the girl are saying what they have between them is nothing serious. You do not mess with that until they figure it out themselves what to do with their own situation. Stay out of this and seek another girl, out of this mess. Think about it, if she is treating your friend, a person that you should be caring about... imagine how quick she will dump you to the next guy?
- i think you may be speaking to the deaf on this one brother.airey
- I believe so too...fabricio2k
- I understand. Thanks.soseeme
- soseeme0
It's a bit of a dilemma, that's why I'm having such hard time deciding what to do. It seems like option a is a better way to end this. Who knows what may happen in the future.
Thanks for the advice peeps.
- ********0
don't shit where you eat.
or something.
- neue75_bold0
come clean with your mate and go from there, if you have his blessing then proceed with caution.. there's always the chance she'll do the same to you when something better comes along..
Almost all of our relationships begin and most of them continue as forms of mutual exploitation, a mental or physical barter, to be terminated when one or both parties run out of goods..
- jimbojones0
"She told me that she doesn't want anything serious with my friend."
let her manage this
- shitehawke0
First up before you do anything you need to find out if she kerns like a whore. Then decide.
- Amby0
enjoy the moment.. care for ur happiness on the top of everyone else's.. what looks bad to others might be of the utmost rejoice to u.. just don't get too attached till sure.. man up as u'd not wanna regret what u could've done when it was The time!
- bulletfactory0
don't bother, it won't last. she'll likely go make-out with one of your friends and dump you in the near future.
- soseeme0
bump
