my gay roommate
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- ceiling_cat0
Show your roommate this link, and how a woman's life was hell for years
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/2316…- wow, good story.sea_sea
- yeah, pretty touchingceiling_cat
- i'm a sensitive cat, how you doin?ceiling_cat
- that is a good story.
Poor girl. See - not all gay people are fun and nice.mikotondria3 - interestingismith
- ceiling_cat0
From the article
"I pray that Americans as a whole can become more accepting of homosexuals. Perhaps then, gay people won't feel the need to pretend they're straight..."
- hektor9110
if she is hot... go ahead you have the right to talk about over drinks, but dont just tell her.
- version30
lEaVe HiS bEaRd AlOnE!
- buzz0
None of your business. Sorry but it's true!
- iCanHazQBN0
^ a little late to teh gay parade.
- sleepyfatso0
Yeah man. Gotta tell her. Everyone only has one life. Best not to waste a good few years on something that probably won't last. Be a man and do it I say.
- mikotondria30
Fuck it.
Call them out on it.
Both their lives, and yours are too short to go around hand-wringing about what is and isn't your business...
The best outcome - she flips, and doesn't marry him, and finds a straight guy with whom she can make a fullfilling marriage and have a full life....he gets pissed off, and accuses you of 'interfering'....pfft, so effin what ? Its nothing compared to the wholesale intereference and deception he's taking part in. Fuck him - not literally, but why would you wish to maintain having the respect of someone who would do that to someone they claim to care about ?
Get them both together, and call him out on it - you've got nothing to lose, but she's got the best years of her life to lose to this prick - you don't really have a choice - you're the only one in the position to do anything about it, and if you don't, you're as guilty as he is.
Grow some balls and smack them in this guys face, see how high they bounce.- probably not very high since his balls would instantly get caught in the suction created by his roommates mouth.iCanHazQBN
- Yup. Do it. For sure.sleepyfatso
- iCanHazQBN0
do it anonymously. email a quick note to her.
- Nope.Face to face. Be totally in control of the situation.mikotondria3
- Yeah face to face i agree.sleepyfatso
- iCanHazQBN0
"Get them both together, and call him out on it - you've got nothing to lose" -mikotondria3
imagine the the look on your roommates face when you sit them both down in front of you and tell them this. he'd be like "WTF ARE YOU DOING MAN?!" this would be a very drastic and dramatic way of dealing with it. What if they start arguing right in front of you she breaks down?? It would be awkward and i'd be extremely embarrassed. are you sure you want to witness that? and I can only imagine the amount of pure RAGE your roommate would have towards you.
- email her. or twitter it.... "just had some cold coffee, oh and my roommate loves man ass"iCanHazQBN
- i cant confirm thats 140 characters though.iCanHazQBN
- ArmandoEstrada0
Update?
- ukit0
- ********0
If he was cheating on her, maybe let her know .. but from the original post it just seems like he's into guys. Maybe he's bi? Maybe she's bi? Maybe they'll explore their gayness together?
- mikotondria30
'embarrassed', 'awkward', 'rage towards me'....illusory, temporary incidents, surely you would 'risk' being uncomfortable to save these people's lives.. I mean really save them, as it stopping them pissing it away. I was recently 38 - a mere slip of a boy, sure - but old enough to know how quick 10 years can go by, and about how one way time is.
- +1sleepyfatso
- yeah, but he could let her know subtly. your way just seems like the most dramatic.iCanHazQBN
- i dont even really care either way actuallyiCanHazQBN
- ********0
- raf0
Are you sure she doesn't know?
- ********0
Life isn't about getting it right first time, and saving years which would have been lost. What you're describing makes it sound like there's a script that we should all aim for - and the closer our lives match it, the happier we'll be... it's bullshit.
If the guy hasn't cheated on her, he really hasn't done anything wrong. If he's made the decision to marry, it's his choice.
No one knows how their marriage will turn out - it might be a complete fcking disaster, but I seriously think people should be allowed to make mistakes themselves and figure it out on their own terms.
- ismith0
What's the big deal? Just talk to your friend about it, ask if she knows, if your assumptions are correct, and why he's doing it. Whatever happens after that is his problem.
