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- e-pill0
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then what? facebook hurt you guys!?!? imagine thos e girls were nters, then what would happen? damn facebook!!!
- studderine0
yeah, well the talking afterward brought up a lot of other stuff. shit is rough dudes.
- e-pill0
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other stuff?
- studderine0
yeah. she moved here to chicago to be with me. ive never lived with a girl so its been an adjustment period for nearly the whole time she has been here. we have been at each other...
- < been at each other?3point14159
- he means arguing..iCanHazQBN
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- ukit0
Just apologize...do something for her to show your sorry.
Women put a lot of stock in what their friends think, you gotta be careful what you say!
- e-pill0
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what kind of differences?? for you i mean...
living with a chick...
- 3point141590
how old is she?
- studderine0
well she is little older than i by 4 years so i understand her feelings. she doesnt want to waste anymore time not knowing
- benfal990
do you really love her?
that is the question
- studderine0
yes i really do love her. i just can't make up my mind about our future.
- thats what hurts the most for her, im sure.studderine
- yes the fact that her man cant commit yes that hurts. stop feeling sorry for yourself and make a decision!sea_sea
- sea_sea0
what do you have to make up your mind about? how can anyone possibly know whats going to happen in the future? all you have to know is what you are feeling NOW.
the future will unfold for you as it does for everyone else one thought, one moment at a time.
- e-pill0
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is this all leading towards marriage?
- e-pill your killing me with he enter response deal LOL! dont stop hahahaasea_sea
- yeah, we both know it wouldnt happen right away...but fuck..im youngstudderine
- dont stop epill... dont stop!!! ohhhhhhhh epill..!iCanHazQBN
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i was married 10 years... its the greatest thing ever...e-pill - why did you divorce?iCanHazQBN
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the wife wanted one. our goals became different.e-pill - Enter response:
our careers dominated our lifestyles and we grew out of love.e-pill - :( sadiCanHazQBN
- studderine0
its hard to explain over the webz, it is nice to be able to vent though.
- benfal990
whats the thing thats bugging you about the futur? You would like to live alone again? you're not used to live with a girl in your apartment?
- never lived with a girl before.studderine
- whats it like? did u have to drastically change your ways?iCanHazQBN
- a little. not THAT much.studderine
- i would probably have to stop my beatboxing. it would really annoy someone.iCanHazQBN
- sea_sea0
can you talk to her? im sure all she really needs is reassurance that she's not "wasting" her time. let her know you are in it for the long run. your living together for gods sake right? so there is a commitment already. all we need sometimes is just to be reminded we are the one! so get her some nice flowers, make her feel good.
- i will try, but we had a pretty serious talk about us last night. i will try.studderine
- benfal990
so this is the thing that keep questioning youself? "can i live with a girl in my home all the time?" sometimes you would like to be alone in your stuff? am i right?
- ukit0
sometime you just want to fap and watch sportscenter. am i right?
- i could never fap to sportscenter. stuart scott's eye always bugs me out.iCanHazQBN
- iCanHazQBN0
you know epill, divorces and break ups give me hope. because i'm in love with a girl who's in a long-term relationship. i've been miserable ever since i met her. i wish i never did because i cant stop thinking about her. i hope they fall apart.....
- sea_sea0
trust me i know how you feel. my bf of 5 years just moved out, i thought he was the infamous "one", but the results came in and he wasn't! i thought i would be crushed, and honestly i'm already moving forward. one NEVER knows, and you know what? it's ok. seriously. that is why i said make "today" a good day. because one never knows how the wheels will turn. live for NOW and stop worrying about the future and if it's gonna work or not. even if you dove into the "M" word, there is no guarantee there either.
if it's space you need then tell her, i bet you she needs some too.
chin up lad.
- e-pill0
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i still live for my wife married or not. she is still my soul mate and good friend, i listen to her and understand her views. divorces are hard and really i wish they never existed. i believe in marriage a lot and im so sad and hurt it got to this point... life does move on...
however for studderine i say try as hard as you can. marriage is all about sacrifices and commitments and that challange of doing it together facing the world together as best friends...
so really studderine... i ask is this girl your best friend??
meh... am i just rambling on... maybe i need some coffee...