I got 2 major problems
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- SoulFly
I have 2 major issues, one I think I have solved.
First, I found out by accident that I had a mistake on a resume that I have been sending out for at least 2 months. I did a spell-check and I had the word Art concepting. It should be Art conception. I traced back into where this disaster went wrong and I found out that for some reason the spell-check in Word does not work at all. I've bought a new computer last year, and had not used Microsoft word since, I guess there was a software glitch some how.Second unrelated issue, for the last 2 weeks, I have some type of paranoia, or I don't know what. But I have this feeling that "strangers" find something funny about my appearance or something. People in the train ride, at the supermarked, or walking by, I have this feeling that they look at me and give this "smirk". This "paranoia" happend about 5 times during the last week. I am not sure if it is because I stopped using rogaine and my bald stop really shows (this is a serious thread, just being honest). Or if I changed the way I "walk" or something. I have advanced degree baldness or something, meaning nothing on top. Unless I "bic" it, or use rogaine for a couple months, it is really noticeable.
What do you think?
- waterhouse0
This feels like I'm a therapist.
- akrokdesign0
the clock is ticking...
- ********0
If you're a therapist, can I simply be The Rapist?
- I'll take The Rapist for 300.katekelly
- Surewaterhouse
- sounds like jeopardyakrokdesign
- indeed. am i the only one who has seen that episode?katekelly
- i am not sure. hm. :-Dakrokdesign
- haha Squidbilliesdog_opus
- the game is a-foot trebek!lambsy
- katekelly0
hey- think bruce willis...hes a sexy man with no hair- embrace that shit
- well he has fame to lay back his egg head on.akrokdesign
- ukit0
You use Rogaine? Does it really work? I'm not bald, I've just always kind of wondered.
- it works.akrokdesign
- It grows hair but "peach skin" or "baby hair" in other words, if you have a buzz-cut, you get away with it.SoulFly
- Interestingukit
- yeah, if you all ready lost alot it might be harder to grow it back.akrokdesign
- you have to use it forever though, once you stop it almost immediately returns to prior stateacescence
- alicetheblue0
too much conception/consumption?
wear a hat!
- ukit0
I'd go with the Bruce Willis approach - shave it all off. It makes you look like a giant penis, women love it.
- akrokdesign0
not pretty...
- ********0
Who cares what other people think?
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Besides me who acts like I don't care what others think, but I deeply care to the point where when people smile at me or acknowledge my existence I immediately think they're judging me and my hair or walk.
- ********0
I think you are self conscious about your self. You feel as though everyone is looking at your different because you made a mistake and that is translating and resonating in to other part of your life.
Compounding balding is also not helping. There is a need for acceptance in your actions. The idea of paranoia can only lead to more paranoia.
Some times what will happen is that you will repeat the embarrassing or self conscious moment in your head. It will just come to your head and it will make you feel suddenly either paranoid or shamed. You may scream inwardly to drown out the memory or think of it as silly thought but ignore it. This lead to escalation that you become physical or vocal about your actions.
You may start talking to your self saying "shut up" or "stupid" telling your self something negative to put your self even more but not actually dealing with the issue. At the same time, you may self inflict some physical pain to make the memory go away.
The memory can come from anywhere. It will some how lead to everything you do. You seem to be stuck in the wheel of how everything is connected to your memories.
You have accept and deal with your self. It started with it. Dont repress or deny them.
- MrD
you've been taking those online courses again ;-)alicetheblue
- MrD
- katekelly0
solution:
watch 'Saturday Night Fever', and take song from opening scene where hes walking down the street, and play it in your head everytime you're walking in a public place
- hahaakrokdesign
- dr. katekelly.akrokdesign
- hahah, actually I usually have Rod Stewart's, "If You Think I'm Sexy", playing in my head a lot...********
- haha, nice.katekelly
- SoulFly0
I stopped using Rogaine in March, and when you stop using, you lose all your new hair, and it goes to the stage point of how it would look if you never had used it. It happens in 6 monhts, and it happens all at once, this picture I found on the internet is how my hair is now, probably even wider.
I'm not going back to using rogaine again, I got super tired of the 2 daily applications.
- did you use the foam or what?akrokdesign
- I used the foam in recent times.
Its the same as the original solution. The foam melts into liquid right away. Juat marketing.SoulFly - the "foam" it is just a marketing thing, like I said, once you apply it, it melts into liquid.SoulFly
- trueakrokdesign
- akrokdesign0
crap.
- ukit0
How old are you Soulfly, just curious?
- ********0
alice
that is where i am right now. scary isnt it
- ********0
and also it explains a lot doesnt it.
- akrokdesign0
by the way, it also matter what shampoo you use.
- ********0
i can feel just people closing the thread and moving away from the computer.
i can feel it. and i can mentally see you.
- stoplying0
They were laughing at you cause they saw the typo in your resume.
I can't tell you what to do about baldness, but I personally think dudes who shave their heads and "admit defeat" are much happier than those trying to hang on to what's left. Let it shine, brother.