Breakup Advice
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- flavorful0
If I only had sex 10 times a year ... let alone with one girl.
I would fucking kill myself.
- kelpie0
I'm starting my stop watch now, you mad fantasist muppet...
- kelpie0
get that up on NT Mugz...
- moogoo0
how long have you known that you wont get married to her - and if its been for a while - then WHY have you been going out with her for so long?
i hope you manage to think of a decent excuse for when you break the news to her cos if you tell her what you've written on here then you are going to end up with some shredded clothing, broken computer/tv/dvd/hifi or a dented/wrecked car.
good lord! i hope ur not talkin for personal experience 23kon.
- moogoo0
*from personal experience
- SteveJobs0
judging from the fact that you are looking to others for their thoughts, i would sit her down and ask her how she feels about the relationship and tell her how you feel.
7 years is a long time to be in a relationship with someone. for most, it's 1/10 of their life.
if you have feelings for her, and the two of you can't figure out what to do, i'd recommend both of you going to a councelor to talk your problems out.
but that's just my opinion...
good luck!
- brooke0
I haven't read most of the posts, but I did read Design_naked's story. (Good on you for posting that.) I think that's what he needs to hear right now, and not bullshit like "what's wrong with you?", etc..
- chossy0
Tell her she only gees ye a semi :/
- barbtastic0
apologies for being blunt earilier, but, i understand how you feel, last time i broke up with someone i felt like shit about it for a whole month, it sucks to have to do it...
yet i'm thankful that was the worst of my worries. still have my health, all my limbs, and no one is dying ffs
- chossy0
I live in edinburgh check this out I can't believe kelpie or skt hasn't posted this yet ha ha ha :)
- Drno0
if you have feelings for her, and the two of you can't figure out what to do, i'd recommend both of you going to a councelor to talk your problems out.
but that's just my opinion...
good luck!
SteveJobs
(Aug 16 07, 09:14)*exits to get advice about iphone's dead pixels*
- fortified0
good luck, I got out of an 8 year relationship a few months ago and it has been very very difficult. many nights thinking about putting the business end of a .45 in my mouth. But then other days are fine.
It's a huge life change, you probably wont fully understand it all, but it will be quite a ride.
- Jaline0
I can't even imagine being with someone for that long and then...
not.
:(
- chossy0
hang in there fortified :) a little chunk of you is missing but hey great statues get chipped but they still remain as magnificent as the day they were created.
- fortified0
yah man thanks for the good vibes! This year has been total shiite for me, my best friend committed suicide, bad family issues, lost a girl of 8 years cause she was fucking someone else, broke my back in a snowboarding accident, got hooked on the morphine pills they gave me, anyhow just coming out of it all and what a fucking strange trip its been.
but back to the matter at hand here, good luck and be honest with her, she deserves that.
- chossy0
indeed what a torrid time you have had fortified keep on keepin on :) buy a kitten :D except not the devil one I got she's torn my arms to ribbons and she thinks she can do likewise to my lips NO WAY HAAAA!!
- Jaline0
danm, fortified. glad you're doing better.
(I think you're doing better, anyway).
:)
- e-pill0
I can't even imagine being with someone for that long and then...
not.
:(
Jaline
(Aug 16 07, 10:28)Jaline, you been part of NT for almost as long...