Breakup Advice
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- Witt0
A bit off topic. An interlude:
- Bluejam0
dismiss your relationship via youtube
or 'poke her' a termination via facebookkeep it web twopointoh
- Witt0
tell her you don't like her ability to kern.
skt
(Aug 16 07, 03:01)hey, can I use that one next time?
- skt0
tell her that after 7 years she now has a fanny like a ripped out fireplace... then run.
- rafalski0
don't tell her you're antecipating unhapiness. come up with a lie and tell her you have a new girlfriend. good luck.
Witt
(Aug 16 07, 02:50)I'm not saying I know much about women, but something tells me that would actually be a more traumatising blow than an honest "it's not working anymore".
She'll lose a lot of her self-respect if she hears she'd spent 7 years with a weak prick who cheated on her.
- bolus0
i didn't read witt's post, I just say listen to witt randomly, and for once, don't listen to witt..
just tell her....
but do realise that breaking up doesn't make you any younger..... you're getting old, with or without her
- mimeartist0
Have you actually thought how she feels in all this... you've just made your mind us yourself have you? No chance of actually talking through it with her? She may feel the same way!
- codfather0
I care for her very much and have been content in the relationship for the last 3 years but I wouldn't say happy. I feel that at 27 I have to make the decision to move on on to commit and I feel I'd been unhappy with the latter.
- Witt0
aye rafalski - that was my point. saying that someone will make you unhappy his a very rude blow.
and also ironically saying I was hinting that I don't (and any clever doesn't either) believe that a 7 yr old thing falls apart on predictions. Usually someone else is there - already or in a subliminal form.
- Witt0
jesus what a messy piece of english in my last post. sorry.
- codfather0
Have you actually thought how she feels in all this... you've just made your mind us yourself have you? No chance of actually talking through it with her? She may feel the same way!
mimeartist
(Aug 16 07, 03:09)I know that she has said before that she didn't feel we were ideally suited some time ago but we were going through a bad patch...
My underlying feeling is that I'm going to get more frustrated and unhappy as the relationship carries on because I want to have more relationships before I settle down.
- senseg0
if i had a girlfriend for 7 years, i would only change it to Jessica Alba or something.
Keep in mind its not easy now to find a proper girlfriend.
- Raniator0
Enter response:tell her that after 7 years she now has a fanny like a ripped out fireplace... then run.
skt
(Aug 16 07, 03:04)Hippo's yawn.
- kelpie0
codfather, why are you on here? make a decision like a man cos this smells of looking for validation so you don't feel like as much of a shit when you do what you're already wanting to do.
Don't worry it won't make you Darth Vader.
- codfather0
I feel worse since I put this post up :|
- Raniator0
7 years? That's a long time to realise you don't want her...
I ain't gonna lie – she's gonna be fucked off, gutted.
Your only hope is that she might be feeling the same way as you are...
- Bullitt0
7 fuckin years dude!?
I got a mate whos just done this, but he got married before they realized it, thats just a fuckin waste of life IMO(7 years)but better late than never.
another way of sorting it out could be you introducing her to me! but I'm already spoken for :)
heh is she hot ?
- Bluejam0
she might have had a holiday fling
- codfather0
Enter response:7 fuckin years dude!?
I got a mate whos just done this, but he got married before they realized it, thats just a fuckin waste of life IMO(7 years)but better late than never.
another way of sorting it out could be you introducing her to me! but I'm already spoken for :)
heh is she hot ?
Bullitt
(Aug 16 07, 03:26)Certainly not a waste - we've had some great times. This has been building in mind for some time tho over the last 2 years.
Reniator:
I think in the long term it will be good for both of us - its just really hard to focus on anything but the gloomy side of the actual breakup right now :(
- codfather0
she might have had a holiday fling
Bluejam
(Aug 16 07, 03:30)That is the thing - if she said she wanted to break up with me because she found someone else I think I'd be relieved - I guess that is saying something huh?