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- blackfrancis0
Sorry to hear it man. I know I don't post here a whole lot, but just reading what you wrote brought back some pretty shitty memories. I've been there too.
So my advice. End it now. Just end it. Once she has done it and thinks she's gotten away with it - she'll do it again. You sound like a nice guy from the things you post here and I certainly don't want to have anyone go through what I went through - dark days, man. Years of Dark Days.
Once I moved on I met an amazing girl and we just got married in September. Things get better and always know that it is her loss.
Chin up and good luck.
- version30
Also, if any girls are reading this thread, please please tell me why she gets all angry at me and starts yelling when i tell her she doesn't deserve me anymore. What causes that need for her to blow up on me and act like I've done something wrong, but when asked I did she was hit with silence.
I even gave her the chance to calm down and admit she was hurt, but alas all i heard was screaming. Too bad her daughter had to hear that :(
- OSFA0
i think that if we keep postin about this subject all we are doinis remindin v4 of it. Let's talk about happy thangs.
We need some closure and we need it now!
what do u say v4?
- version30
Behind every storm cloud is a silver lining eh Francis?, thanks for posting and congrats on the wedding! :)
- CALLES0
be glad it was only 6 to 7 months.... and she even had the nerve to scream at you? well you know different people react in different mannners to different situations its probably her way to deal with the shame, trying to pin it on you or something like that
- version30
push this thread to 1000!
share stories, give support, post links, whatever
all posts, snide or not are appreciated, they all relate and help see a different point of view
- OeufOeuf0
I believe we will find closure at the titty bar. Who's with me?!
- -sputnik-0
great words, blackfrancis
- version30
Calles! I said that on the phone, told her i realized we were both hurt and she should calm down. she only got louder. At this point I'm just telling myself one of 2 things. 1. she's pushing me away to avoid the hurt or 2. I'm deserving of such actions and she enjoys my hurt
i'm leaning toward 1.
- CALLES0
well... girls are crazy... the one that i was with for 5 months freaked out and wanted space she broke up without me knowing i wanted closure so i was chasing her for like 2 weeks until i stopped it hurt like a motherfucker and then i snapped out of it... now im even with a better girl i mean shes amazing... point of the story is that now the ex that dumped me is chasing me around and wants to get back with me... fucking crazy
- version30
Now that I think about it, there is only one person to blame... My slow ass client in fremont, had I got their check, I would've moved already :/
- CALLES0
well she probably loves you, did a mistake(that you should not have to deal with cuz you dont sound like you deserve) and now she knows that shes really fucked and its in a world of pain and its freaking out inside her head and its coming out her mouth in shouts
- -sputnik-0
v4, i can't tell you why she's yelling at you except that she probably feels really bad about everything and herself and takes it out on you. which just reinforces that she's selfish.
don't waste another second on her. cause that's all it'll ever be...a waste of your time. there are a lot of really wonderful ppl out there who can fill your life w/both wonderful friendships and love.
- version30
2 more things.
1. we're no longer myspace friends, dang ;)
2. QBN, I demend you turn my nick pink! (for obvious reasons)
not so much of a demand, but more a polite request :)
maybe a few posts of support encouraging QBN to do so? anyone... anyone?
- version30
-sputnik-
muchas appreciated, it's relieving, calming to read words from another that agree with what you think may be true
- Gucci0
She's yelling because no one likes to hear what they already know.
I mean... who likes to be called out for their bullshit, right?She probably realizes that she fucked up, but doesn't want to hear it...
maybe she's trying to get you to freak out about it so she can justify things to herself.
- ********0
"lets just say she wasn't the only one in the situation my heart had feelings for, it's her i feel sorry for."
version4
(Jan 26 07, 12:12)grow up, man.
- version30
Witt, do you even understand what that post means? I find it very grown up in all honesty.
Please explain your point.
- CALLES0
QBN... please make this man as pink as he want sto be
- -sputnik-0
i don't think witt read much of this thread