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- ********0
i think i do. as far as my english goes that means you weren't certain. and that's what people do when they're not certain. they try other people.
something that you could probably do yourself?
- version30
i'll help you understand
lets just say she wasn't the only one in the situation my heart had feelings for, it's her i feel sorry for.
version4
(Jan 26 07, 12:12)If you don't mind me asking, did she/you have a child involved? is that what you meant by that.
contia1
(Jan 26 07, 12:45)she has a daughter, 3yo. we really liked each other. Lots of time spent with her, stories playing, lots and lots of dora time :)
version4
(Jan 26 07, 12:46)do i still need to grow up?
- ********0
"they try other people. "
that is fine if you are out fucking the town red. But not when you are in a comitted relationship.
- ********0
but maybe thats how you guys roll in Lisbon.
- ********0
ok. i confess i jumped a few posts... sorry man.
but grow up anyway. people with children move as fast as they can.
it happened to me too. maybe i'm being too general now (again) - but that's the feeling i got.
how old was she anyway? that counts.
- -sputnik-0
i don't understand the "grow up" comment. how is v4 acting immature for considering the feelings of a child, and being hurt by someone who cheated on him?
- ********0
but maybe thats how you guys roll in Lisbon.
morilla
(Jan 26 07, 14:05)
.i was hoping to theorize that happens anywhere with unsecure people. security is what people look first i think.
- CALLES0
pretty sad but i think im giving up on the whole dating marriage kids thing
- ********0
No , what you said is it is acceptable for people to go around fucking whoever they want. To try all the candy in the candy store to make sure they are with the right one.
That is not cool.That my friend is a cheating slut.
- version30
witt shit on my thread, maybe QBN should just turn my nick brown ;)
- mrdobolina0
I think you should pee on her...
- ********0
i don't understand the "grow up" comment. how is v4 acting immature for considering the feelings of a child, and being hurt by someone who cheated on him?
-sputnik-
(Jan 26 07, 14:09)ok "grow up" was wrong. "wise up" then.
i was involved with someone with a child too. i was unsecure too. she did not waste any time over my unsecureness. she just moved on. maybe i'm generalising too much, but i was left thinking if that's not how people work above 30's. it's not like a juvenile dating with lots of time and travel anymore...
anyway, i wasn't trying to offend or dispute. i'm sorry i my words were too harsh.
maybe i'm a bit scorched about relationships, that's all. hence my tone.
- CALLES0
witt shit on my thread, maybe QBN should just turn my nick brown ;)
version4
(Jan 26 07, 14:13)haha ill tell you what man... you seem to be taking it better than i would
- ********0
and, morilla, i do not subscribe the "fuck around until you score" theory... in fact, i'm quite the opposite.
- ********0
Ahhhh, gotcha. I guess it was just a miscommunication
- ********0
maybe QBN should just turn my nick brown ;)
version4
(Jan 26 07, 14:13)that's way beyond my english now, but i agree with any chastisements from QBN. especially those in that particular authorative tone ;)
- ********0
Ahhhh, gotcha. I guess it was just a miscommunication
morilla
(Jan 26 07, 14:20)well i didn't explain myself too clearly that's for sure. that's one of my defects.
i need to grow up.
- version30
awesome, witt, awesome! hopefully QBN doesn't hurt me too and banzor me or something :)
haha ill tell you what man... you seem to be taking it better than i would
CALLES
(Jan 26 07, 14:15)I have to deal with it, responsibly, but I can't change anything. I've always been a roll with the punches kind of guy. All the posts here help cement my feelings and ideas. which is why i shared. Now gimme that FUCKING font!
- Point50
well, now it's time to move on to something better. Apply that to all aspects of life. Let every step be forward.
- CALLES0
i think your going to have to take a thread as hostage and send qbn your list of demands