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- akoni0
go to the nearest mirror in the house, probably the bathroom, and just stand there and smile at yourself for a minute or so, I garooontee you will be laughing.
I am being serious too.
- CALLES0
i know right live in miami beach have a good job i throw good parties know tons of people and here i am crushed over a girl that i wasn't so sure about at the beggining. and njow im freaking loosing my freaking mind over her
- jevad0
akoni - that's funny - I have actually done that before...and it really does help!
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Time works in the long run, but I know, you need something to stop thinking about it now. go work out, go run/bike, whatever, keep active. don't just sit and think about it. go to a coffee shop and work. just don't sit alone in your place and dwell. get the fuck out and take it day by day. At the end of each day, you'll think. yeah i do feel little better. and then bam, one day you totally cool with the world.
joyride2
(Dec 12 06, 11:19)joyride - so very well put mate...
- tkmeister0
like others said, have something to look forward to. i find it helps for me to have a goal. a bigger picture on where i want to get in life. work sometimes suck, relationship sometimes don't work out but i just keep trying. trying to get a better place in life and finding out something new about myself.
- CALLES0
i need her to move out of town.... I think i can do this
- jevad0
oh and always listen to good, happy, uplifting music!! definately do NOT listen to Sunny Day Real Estate...as I am doing right now!!
haha
- CALLES0
i guess portishead is out of the question
- Point50
flavorful, I have 2 kids! Ain't no dust in this sac :D
- Jaline0
Nic, just keep looking towards Christmastime. That's what I'm doing to get through these final exams...
- PonyBoy0
*mad-group-grope-fondle-hug
- ********0
i wonder if an NT poll would be representive of anything besides crazy chicks and repressed homossexuals...
// AHAAAHAH! just kidding. fyi i hardly laugh at my own jokes,
- CALLES0
this still sucks
- ********0
j/k
believe me.
- joyride0
naw... you'll be good. people don't realize how many single girls are actually out there.
I've realized a while ago... some relationships just last longer then others and they are all great in their own way. take the positives from it and keep going.
like tk said, just keep going, when your ready. each relationship gets better
hrmm... i'm happy im not sadride2, that would suck
- barbtastic0
i, too, have the SADs
one thing that helped was buying a lot of daylight bulbs for my place [light therapy]... not the same, but it was better than taking up one doctor's recommendation to "go tanning" WTF?
- barbtastic0
i know right live in miami beach have a good job i throw good parties know tons of people and here i am crushed over a girl that i wasn't so sure about at the beggining. and njow im freaking loosing my freaking mind over her
CALLES
(Dec 12 06, 11:28)
----------------------you just answered yourself.
i know it gets old hearing the clichés over and over, but they are true.
6 months from now you'll wonder what you ever saw in the bitch...
- CALLES0
6 months!?!?!?! god help me
- CALLES0
i can't be like this for six months.... ill loose 30 pounds and will loose y ability to light up the room
- barbtastic0
i didn't mean it was gonna take 6 months to get over it, i was only saying in a shirt time, you will see things from a clearer perspective...
look at it this way: better to find out now she's a hosebeast rather than years down the road. she just made room for someone amazingly better to be in your life :)
- grunttt0
ahhh CALLES you're dealing with lost love. That there, my friend, is what makes one whole. As much as it hurts, you're becoming more well rounded, more whole with this experience.