getting over an ex-girlfriend
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- joyride0
yes, girls are more interested when with another girl, thats a fact jack!
*of course she should be a hott girl. muffin tops don't count
- barbtastic0
stop being emo?
- tkmeister0
not for me.
i am lazy and go for the easy targets.
*waves to the prostitute across the street.
- HumanMale0
Dude, it's gonna suck for a while, but time will sort your head out.
The 'even after a week' comment is gay, it's gonna take months.
One tip – just don't fucking try to 'stay friends', it'll just rip your heart out even more.
- OSFA0
Find a (nympho) psychologist NipTuck style. She'll help you release ur anger.
- skelly0
I just think that the person who "betrayed" you should at least apologize.
Jaline
(Dec 8 06, 07:26)Yeah, def. apology for sure.
"Hey man, I'm sorry I fucked your girlfriend"
"It's ok. I'm sorry for getting back by peeing in your shampoo."
"What?"
"Nothing."
- robotron3k0
us designers tend to be more emotional and sensitive
pepsi
(Dec 8 06, 07:26)to add, we all have superior visual skills and can easily imagine our significant other getting humped by someone else. that's always hard to get out of the head.
I say, wallow in your misery, find friend to comisurate with and have a great excuse to get wasted for the 1/2 a year or so, cut your hair off, work out, make out with a few strangers and use the rest of your pain to make you dig deep and produce something creative...
- barbtastic0
hang in there, cowboy. this too shall pass.
paraselene
(Dec 8 06, 07:10)
--------------------so true, so why not start getting over it now?
- ********0
i am throwing an orgy party. wanna cum? you'll get over your ex really quick.
- Jaline0
Find a (nympho) psychologist NipTuck style. She'll help you release ur anger.
OSFA
(Dec 8 06, 07:32)a hot one too
- aliceblue0
I try and believe that things happen for a reason, a GOOD reason, and that there will be something really special just around the corner.
after the breakup I packed up my truck and drove out to the west coast for 6 months. New place, new people, no memories.
- OSFA0
Jaline, I thought you had me on ignore... yayy!
- Tara0
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all really good advice.the shit that's fucking with me are the pings of thought, that turn your stomach. i can look outside of it all and see it as just animalistic human attachment - and all attachments bring suffering.
so in looking outside of it, it's not that painful.
but then there's that every once in awhile when that objective mind, or the witness
falls back into the story and it all feels so heavy.
so - being a designer - being a bit compulsive - the thoughts cycle - spin up, and revolve...
DSTND
(Dec 8 06, 07:24)
>>>>it's going to take time, i think you should just let yourself feel whatever you're feeling and not judge yourself harshly for it. of course you were attached, 4 years is a long time. but there's nothing wrong with that. if you mourn the death of your relationnship now instead of pushing away your feelings, you will be all the better for it in the future. call your friends, get busy, set some goals for the next 6 months and work towards them.
- robotron3k0
oh yeah, and if you stop listening to shoe-gazer and goth music, that will help a ton.
- k0na_an0k0
DSTND. I hope this makes you feel better.
A long time ago the love of my life cheated on me with my best friend. That part you know.
Flash forward almost 11 years and she's REALLY fat with two absolute fucks for kids and he's gone bald.
Justice has been fucking served.
- CALLES0
can i have her number?
just kidding
- Tara0
oh yeah, and if you stop listening to shoe-gazer and goth music, that will help a ton.
robotron3k
(Dec 8 06, 07:49)Haha yeah none of that sad music is allowed!
- Jaline0
k0na, something tells me you were the best looking person in that room. I think I remember you mentioning something about a geeky girl who turned out to be hot and you were one of the only guys who talked to her in school?
unless I'm imagining things...
- paraselene0
damn. i was trying to find a really great sketch by mitchell and webb about breaking up, but it's not on youtube, so you're getting this one instead:
- Mimio0
A little "Loveless" by MBV might actually be in order.