getting over an ex-girlfriend
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- Tara0
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all really good advice.the shit that's fucking with me are the pings of thought, that turn your stomach. i can look outside of it all and see it as just animalistic human attachment - and all attachments bring suffering.
so in looking outside of it, it's not that painful.
but then there's that every once in awhile when that objective mind, or the witness
falls back into the story and it all feels so heavy.
so - being a designer - being a bit compulsive - the thoughts cycle - spin up, and revolve...
DSTND
(Dec 8 06, 07:24)
>>>>it's going to take time, i think you should just let yourself feel whatever you're feeling and not judge yourself harshly for it. of course you were attached, 4 years is a long time. but there's nothing wrong with that. if you mourn the death of your relationnship now instead of pushing away your feelings, you will be all the better for it in the future. call your friends, get busy, set some goals for the next 6 months and work towards them.