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- ThreeSevenFive0
C) Buy a firearm.
First and foremost
- IRNlun60
B) Send him some flowers with an attached card "Thanks for the referrals! You're a chum!"
TheTick
(Sep 9 05, 12:53)hahah...
- Rand0
\\ like the people of new orleans, you are responsible for everything that's happened to you
- madirish0
did we ever work at the same 3 person firm? ;) seriously though, that same thing happened to me (well, save the cocain and skin part).
sorry to hear about it. hope you get it all on the mellow....
- PonyBoy0
you live an uneccessarily complicated life
uberdesigner
-------------------Quote of the motherf*cking day, right there!
TheTick
(Sep 9 05, 12:54)
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yeah... no fucking kidding.
- TheTick0
you live an uneccessarily complicated life
uberdesigner
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Quote of the motherf*cking day, right there!
- uberdesigner0
you live an uneccessarily complicated life
- TheTick0
A) Hire an attorney. Review history. See if there is anything legal to be done.
A.1) File a police report if there was any physical threats in the phone messages. Document this shit in case the worst comes to pass.
B) Send him some flowers with an attached card "Thanks for the referrals! You're a chum!"
C) Buy a firearm.
- lvl_130
^ are NOT sweating it, i meant
- PonyBoy0
Fuck him up before he fucks you up...
I wish it was that easy. Yeah, get an attorney, restraining order possibly and never go anywhere alone.
Point5
(Sep 9 05, 12:49)
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his last arrest was for breaking a restraining order.
hahaha!!
- lvl_130
my last response took way too long to type. glad to hear your clients are sweating it.
what a fucking selfish cock that guy is for actually doing that!
meth makes people crazy! sad really!
- Point50
Fuck him up before he fucks you up...
I wish it was that easy. Yeah, get an attorney, restraining order possibly and never go anywhere alone.
- lvl_130
shit. if he's not answering/returning your calls there's not much you can do other than keep trying.
one thing i would say is don't make yourself sound desperate (if that makes sense) just be up front and tell him that you would really like to speak to him about the situation.
you've known him for a while, so i think you have somewhat of an upper hand in the whole matter. plus you are the rational one, and rational people can usually calm irrational psychos
- PonyBoy0
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eh - i already called and apologized... but this shit's going to haunt the ex-boss now.
his messages mentioned that he was going to my client and was going to ruin me so I couldn't finish the project that they asked me to do without his knowing.
so he went!!!! The client just called me - and said: DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT.
additionally they said: "kevin is the person we want doing our website - we hired him - he's our guy"... and left him hanging with that...
... how rad is that?!!
that client is getting a discount. :)
- ThreeSevenFive0
Pony, I feel for you man. It's hard in this city with the huge meth prob. I know that talking won't solve anything because you're right. Meth makes people completely unreasonable. I hope everything smooths itself out.
- TheTick0
Call an attorney.
- IRNlun60
stay calm...and apologize.
say it like you just explained... "Man I was tlaking to someone and for some reason it came up, I'm sorry...let me know if there's anything I can do to help..." praise him, make it seem like your are there for him and you'll be fine. Tell him what he wants to hear. If that doesn't work, poke him in the eye and run...he might get a couple shots off but can't see so you're safe.
- backwards0
touch his penis
end of story
- PonyBoy0
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you're right lvl_13... and on top of that - i've already tried apologizing etc... i'm not being a dick about this at all - i know i fucked up by opening my mouth...
... but i'm scared a bit because this guy ISN'T REASONABLE once he chooses a battle - I know this because I've watched him get arrested a number of times now because HE doesn't think.
- PonyBoy0
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i already called the guy to apologize - called a couple times now - he's not calling me back.
fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck.