unwelcomed visitor
- Started 20 years ago
- Last post 20 years ago
- 185 Responses
- piperboytoy
I don't know what to do. Someguy from my school has just emailed me to say he's visiting my city. I haven't talked to him in over 10 years. We never hung out or kept in touch because I never really liked him. During school he was known as the biggest and rudest mooch in school. everyone made fun of him because he would be like a leech!
He's already sent me 4 emails and i have yet to reply to any. The most recent email, he even asked about the size of my apartment and for me to take a few days off work when he's in town.
What is the best way to get rid of this guy?
- jdcomba0
tell him you're out of town, or you have an overbearing girlfriend and he can't come, or you have an apartment the size of a typical bathroom and you can't have any visitors.
any lie will work.
hahahhahahhahhaha
- gruntt0
tell him that as embarassed as you are to admit it, your herpes have recently broken out and your barely able to move.
i'm pretty sure he's trying to get in your pants. the herpes thing should be a pretty good deterent.
- toastie0
tell him that you don't like him and that noone ever liked him and that in school he was known as the biggest mooch and that you'd rather kill yourself than see him. that should work.
- GreedoLives0
how about being honest?
just tell him you never liked him and would rather not have him come over and mooch off you.
Not like there's a need to keep him happy with some lies.
- brooke0
Be assertive, damnit.
- toastie0
hey, no, i was just kidding, what's wrong with you people :P
tell him some bullshit
- save0
Don't reply, simple.
- piperboytoy0
I have to reply because he did a search and found my work address. He's known to be pushy!
I guess I will have to say he's not welcomed in my life and he should leave me alone. I hope that will do the trick. I hate being harrased like that.
- rasp0
either ignore the guy, tell him you will be away that month or tell him he's not welcome.
last thing you want is him turning up at your work if you dont like him.
my guess is he wants to saty for 'a few days' that will turn into weeks / months
- piperboytoy0
Oh god, the last thing I need is for him to show up at my work. But thank god, he'll probably never find me because our offices are pretty hard to find if you don't know the area.
My friend told him taht I was going on vacation the week that he was suppose to come, but he changed his plans to the following week! So i can take him shopping or something like that. :(
- gruntt0
he sounds like such a prick.
good luck.
- piperboytoy0
:( help!
- _salisae_0
hahahaha
you really feel out of control here? just tell him you're uncomfortable with the situation. no need to give details.
- rasp0
send him a link to this thread
- 2cents0
i would be honest and tell him no dice man.
i would tell him staright up that it aint gonna happen.
i had to deal with it when i lived in whistler... people i never really liked from HS or college calling me up for a free stay on holidays... fuck that.
i'm no charity hostel... stay in a hotel or something like everyone esle.
- caulfield0
tell him it's cool if you can send some of your own friends to go and stay with him first.
Then, when the moocher parts his monstrous lips to give you his address, post it up at his local homeless shelter.
Hahaha, his house will smell like homeless people. Oh maaaan that's so funny and not at all degrading.
- lvl_130
i can understand how you feel. i would feel bad if i was just to straight up tell this dude off...but he really does sound like an ass. the longer you avoid just telling him you aren't comfortable having him stay at your place, the harder it's going to be later. just do it. you don't need shit like that eating away at you.
- piperboytoy0
thanks for your support. I will email him today and tell him straight up that he's not welcomed and i will not make time for him. In my head, I just want to tell him off.
- 305artist0
Tell him he should realize his mental problems and do something about it. Assholes.
- ********0
open your heart and realize that you and he are actually one