worried about girlfriend
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- yoshi_pc0
did they used to call her Finger Cuffs back in highschool?
- ********0
lol yoshi!!
- method_c0
girls don't like to watch your hardcore porn on your pc ....
anyway they dont like that kinda stuff in holland
- welded0
Dude, you're leaping to conclusions here. So she dug the porn - big damn deal! It was your idea in the first place, remember? So as vanilla as they are, you've got your own kinks. Do you love this girl like you say you do? Do you trust her? If you can honestly say "yes" to both of these questions then you need to shut the fuck up and forget about it.
Seriously.
If you didn't, then you need to either loosen up or dump her and try again with somebody else.
Further to the point, it's always fun to spice things up a bit, so keep an open mind and try new things. Who knows, maybe you'll dig it. Explore one another's kinky side, it'll be fun. Trust me.
:)
- crap0
funny thread
- vespa0
so let me get this straight.
you wanted to get your girl excited by showing her some porn and then when she got excited, you didn't like it? what reaction were you hoping for from her? disgust, but secretly excited? excited, but only in an embarressed virginal kind of way?
if a girl showed you porn and then got freaked out if you liked it wouldn't you think she was being a bit of tease?
- ********0
In a nut shell, dont tempt a kid with candy and then get angry when they take it.
But more clearly:
So, with all your insecurities, and honesty (in the best possible way), you signed on to NT to ask about this...
I would say you need a friend. Seriously (not being mean here), you need someone you can talk to you about this. Nevermind the fact that the person you want to "settle down with," should be the person you're talking to about these things.
Moreover, you have some serious insecurity issues to deal with, and that is the problem here. Not only are your insecurities taking you to pre-emptive conclusions, they're keeping you from getting to know yourself and feeling comfortable with who you are.
Try listenting to this contradiction you've created.
- method_c0
you're thinking that maybe she would like another guy in bed with u guys.
she's thinking; my boyfriend has hardcore porn on his computer, maybe i have to be a little bit more kinky for him... cuz when he has porn on his pc he's not getting enough with me
- rasp0
"she's thinking; my boyfriend has hardcore porn on his computer, maybe i have to be a little bit more kinky for him... cuz when he has porn on his pc he's not getting enough with me"
maybe she isnt insecure enough to be jealous of a PC and just wants to enjoy a good sex life with her boyfriend?
Shes not telling you to hang from the ceiling dressed in rubber with a chicken up your arse.
All she did was watch YOUR porno WITH you.
she fantasises...
girls do.. guys do.. people do..try to enjoy it*
*(unless it involves chickens)
bye bye
- nessdog0
or bacon and vomit.
- ********0
or brooms.
but...
ive been told witches pump it up as the best
- skizot0
Dude, bottom line, if you want thing to work out, you'll have to be honest with her and respect her. Sitting down with her and watching a porn flick is disrespectful. Why did you ask her to do that anyway?
- blackspade0
no it aint disrespectfull at all
unless she brings Mr 3 home one night, I wouldnt worry bout it bro,
just sounds like shes an openminded person
- nessdog0
" Sitting down with her and watching a porn flick is disrespectful." Skiznot.
HAHAHA. how ignorant. Sorry to shock you... but ladies watch porn too ya know.
- blakablaka0
some of you are just plain lonely and i'm not the first to say it here.
I feel insecurity in someone is real and very human.. i love and hate my insecurities, but mostly appreciate them.
i have a whole way of looking at relationships and all these girls..
they really come and go, and you meet, fuck and eat dinner with so many.. and then comes a time where you want to filter things out and put yourself in more healthy relationships.. you know.. less scandal, less games, less bullshit. i always said if girl cheats on me.. good riddance.. you know..
so you stop telephoning the freaky types, you tactfully avoid the crazier types.. you just want a good girl.. because you wanna be good..
many guys say.. "you should appreciate it.. you're a lucky guy.. having a girl thats open to kinks".. but how am i lucky if that type of girl is so easy to find..
i see lucky as a mans woman who's wildest craziest fantasy never goes further than this man.
no toys, no movies, and of course no other people.
I am strongly confident about how I bring the sex to our relationship.. I just want a girl who I know. no skeletons in her closet.. no dark secrets. I think because I am closed minded about this issue.. I can never truly accept it.
I don't know how else to explain it..
You telling me its normal makes me feel better, of course.me having the pornos, thats a different issue. but i dont think it matters just because its so common for a guy to have all that shit in his computer.. thats a whole differant discussion.
what do you think?
- skizot0
Sure Gils watch porn too, but watching some other group of people having sex, not bieng disrespectfull?
now thats ignorant.
It be great if people had morals today wouldnt it?
Skizot in the Hizouse!
- vespa0
"me having the pornos, thats a different issue. but i dont think it matters just because its so common for a guy to have all that shit in his computer.. thats a whole differant discussion. "
actually, that is the discussion isn't it? why is it ok for that to be common for guys but for a girl to appreciate it somehow makes her more common?
you seem to be going through the problem that many guys have whereby women can only be defined through 2 identities, 1/virgin or 2/ whore (a 3rd being "the mother", but don't worry about that for now).
You think that by looking for a serious relationship you have to abandon the whores (figuratively speaking) and look for a good virginal type.
This may point to insecurities about your own need for power in a relationship, you know the old colonial need-to-conquer-and-have-an-inno... complex.
Or maybe you're just worried about getting crabs.
- nessdog0
spot on vespa!
- nessdog0
The US spends $10bn on pornography every year. In 2001,the US spent $10bn on foreign aid.
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