worried about girlfriend

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    In a nut shell, dont tempt a kid with candy and then get angry when they take it.

    But more clearly:

    So, with all your insecurities, and honesty (in the best possible way), you signed on to NT to ask about this...

    I would say you need a friend. Seriously (not being mean here), you need someone you can talk to you about this. Nevermind the fact that the person you want to "settle down with," should be the person you're talking to about these things.

    Moreover, you have some serious insecurity issues to deal with, and that is the problem here. Not only are your insecurities taking you to pre-emptive conclusions, they're keeping you from getting to know yourself and feeling comfortable with who you are.

    Try listenting to this contradiction you've created.

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