worried about girlfriend
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- vespa0
"me having the pornos, thats a different issue. but i dont think it matters just because its so common for a guy to have all that shit in his computer.. thats a whole differant discussion. "
actually, that is the discussion isn't it? why is it ok for that to be common for guys but for a girl to appreciate it somehow makes her more common?
you seem to be going through the problem that many guys have whereby women can only be defined through 2 identities, 1/virgin or 2/ whore (a 3rd being "the mother", but don't worry about that for now).
You think that by looking for a serious relationship you have to abandon the whores (figuratively speaking) and look for a good virginal type.
This may point to insecurities about your own need for power in a relationship, you know the old colonial need-to-conquer-and-have-an-inno... complex.
Or maybe you're just worried about getting crabs.