worried about girlfriend

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    some of you are just plain lonely and i'm not the first to say it here.

    I feel insecurity in someone is real and very human.. i love and hate my insecurities, but mostly appreciate them.
    i have a whole way of looking at relationships and all these girls..
    they really come and go, and you meet, fuck and eat dinner with so many.. and then comes a time where you want to filter things out and put yourself in more healthy relationships.. you know.. less scandal, less games, less bullshit. i always said if girl cheats on me.. good riddance.. you know..
    so you stop telephoning the freaky types, you tactfully avoid the crazier types.. you just want a good girl.. because you wanna be good..
    many guys say.. "you should appreciate it.. you're a lucky guy.. having a girl thats open to kinks".. but how am i lucky if that type of girl is so easy to find..
    i see lucky as a mans woman who's wildest craziest fantasy never goes further than this man.
    no toys, no movies, and of course no other people.
    I am strongly confident about how I bring the sex to our relationship.. I just want a girl who I know. no skeletons in her closet.. no dark secrets. I think because I am closed minded about this issue.. I can never truly accept it.
    I don't know how else to explain it..
    You telling me its normal makes me feel better, of course.

    me having the pornos, thats a different issue. but i dont think it matters just because its so common for a guy to have all that shit in his computer.. thats a whole differant discussion.

    what do you think?

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