hate life?
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- ********0
why does that disturb you?
how old u?
- kpl0
24.
I knew of a 20/28 couple while I was in college actually, and I got warning sirens from it then. the relationship imploded in an annulled marriage. so my guts instinct wasn't too far off. basically, the 28 guy wanted to settle, the 20 girl didn't.
it's just that between 20 and 28, people are in different stages of their lives. I wouldn't call it unfair but it is unsettling a bit.
- ********0
like i said, i am not looking for a girl to settle down or anything..
when i am with girls who are over 24, they tend to very mellow and stay home type.. i am fine with that if i am serious about the girl..
but when i am still not ready to settle down, i want to go out and have fun...
when i am dating 18 - 22 i look for fun and nothing else..
- neeko0
i'd say 28/20 is fine for having fun... i wouldnt think it would be too strange to see a 20 year old girl dating a 28 year old guy (although i might have felt different when i was 20). There is a notable maturity difference (in most cases) if you were thinking about a long term relationship though.
- kpl0
don't take it too personal, part of it was joking around.
18 is a bit too young for my tastes because they're generally too inexperienced/innocent/ignorant.
but if they know what they're in for, then it's all good.
- unknown0
I don´t, but then again I´m not 21, I´m not single, I´m not just minding my own little ambitions, I don´t drown my surrows in pints and wantings to be on the telly.
I DO look at the sky for light, I tate wonderfull food, being in the making for hours. I look at all the wonderfull people in the world, without wanting to screw every woman I see. I find pleasure in small stuff ´cause thats all we got and all we need.
- mort0
Goals are what propell us, but it is important to enjoy the journey and not get to dissapointed if the end result doesn't meet our expectations. Not always easy to do, but we all have a choice in how we react to situations - we can get down about a what we think is a negative outcome, or we can say - well I had a great time doing it and fuck it - maybe there's positive a reason for it not working out and move on.
just my 2cents. keep the faith :)
- exposed0
I used to look at negative things exactly as there were, negative. After a few you begin to see the message being sent to you, I took what I learned and moved in a positive direction. The negative experiences are learning experiences.
- drubynum0
I have been experiencing a lot of failure and rejection lately too, getting way down about it. A couple days a go I ran across an article (for the life of me I can't remember where - it may have actually been something I say on the history channel) and they were talking about how the most successful people rack up far more failures than successes on their way up the ladder. The article mentioned how Micheal Jordan missed more shots than any other player, but he also made more. So failure is an integral and necessary part of success. If you're not failing, you're not trying.
- ********0
WORD, drubynum!!!!!!
- mort0
good one drubynum
- ok_static0
I don't hate life, though there's some real hard times in the past 24 years......
I really like to thank my family and my darling girlfriend as well as my friends for supporting me all these years.
And you, who are reading this.
- exposed0
"no evil or experience can suffocate a soul"
unknown
- propa0
Don't feel so down, no matter how bad you think it is many people have it worse than you.
Cheer Up.
- ********0
I'll tell you what dude, first and foremost you are lucky to be alive, the chances that you are even born are slim. Secondly, go and visit a 3rd world/developing country for a while and the come back and say you are depressed. It will help you, I am serious, takes away all your depression immediately and makes you realize how really LUCKY you are.
- ********0
today..
i realized that i lost all my friends..
i am used to being alone.
so i am ok.
- piperboytoy0
we should have a mass PV-AN suicide web broadcast!
- exposed0
that's not a good idea, I have nothing to wear
- neeko0
i could lend you a nice tshirt.
- unknown0
How many people here a loners?
I've been a loner all my life and I never felt alone. I do have friends but I don't spend much time with em though. I rarely socialize because people always end up disappointing me so I rather stay by myself.
Some people think it's a sad sad attitude.
What do you think?