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    Wife left today. Seemed to have enjoyed her stay at my hotel, 2.5 years of marriage, all living costs paid for. Would have been fine with it had she not had these 'episodes' every few months and thrown all her inner turmoil into my face. Thankfully my mother witnessed one of these 'episodes', so I don't need to question my interpretation of events.

    Now she's using my hotel as storage provider, left all her stuff boxed up. She didn't even clean the toilet last weekend... I'm left to clean the toilet. Make sure you don't marry someone with undiagnosed PTSD.

    Thank god we didn't have a child...

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    • Congrats. Get a cat to pee on her boxesGnash
    • ^ Or in her shoes.
      Ask my dad about that.      Continuity
    • put her shit out on the curb, or bring it back to wherever she livesmonospaced
    • Rough post, emotional indeed. My suggestion is not do anything you will regret. Even understandable, justifiable actions could haunt you later. Good luck.imbecile
    • Thanks - I am doing nothing and saying nothing, will speak to lawyer, and just be as calm and kind as I can be...shapesalad
    • timely meme i thought worth sharing https://i.imgur.com/… to open windowsimbecile
    • crypto safe?
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    • what's the ptsd from? Sounds like you're handling it well.pinkfloyd
    • Tough thing to go though from the sounds of it. Wish you well.mort_
    • Been 6 months since i left my crazy alcoholic abusive girlfriend. Not been easy but now have much peace and begun a new relationship. life feels good again._me_
    • wish you the same ultimate happiness_me_
    • For god's sake, don't quit smoking now (if you smoke) ;)

      Good luck and best wishes      OBBTKN
    • pics?drgs
    • PTSD was from sex abuse age 12 from elder brother + friend. Mother blamed her. Then photographer raped her at 21 when she was model.shapesalad
    • Then she had a career at a prestigious fashion company, boss 'sort of' promoted her, to get her closer to him, took her on business trip, drugged and raped hershapesalad
    • Elder sister died soon after that, from stress violent husband and undiagnosed heart condition. Cue guilt as she hadn't been aware of what her sister was goingshapesalad
    • through. She sued her boss and settled, I met her at this time. She spent the money at a top university on a silly course hoping to change career.shapesalad
    • Then covid happened.. we are married.. but she can't work, find work, unwilling to do anything - fear builds ups, self esteem ebbs away...shapesalad
    • ...then as I'm closest person in her life, she turns on me, turns on my family, blames etc.. Just avoiding her responsibility and looking at her self.shapesalad
    • Easier for her to play the victim and get unconditional help from authorities. All very sad.shapesalad
    • that's a lot of red flagspinkfloyd
    • She must be very prettydrgs
    • Sorry to hear this. A new door will open soonstoplying
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