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New dude and I are getting kind of serious. I like him soooo much. I'm moving out of my apt on the 15th and haven't secured a new house yet. Yesterday he said I could stay with him if I wanted which could be kind of nice to spend March together and save money. He's about to travel for 4 months, me for 2 months leaving around the same time. Like my old dude, he also tours a lot but much bigger arena tours. How do I keep dating guys like that? I'm not even trying I swear on God.
I'm currently traveling and last night at like 4am he calls me upset about something unrelated to me. I was touched that he wanted to talk to me when he needed support and I was happy to be that person for him. I get home tomorrow morning at 1am and all I want to do is go straight to his house but I should probably just go home. I've only been officially single since December and should slow down. But, our travel schedules are really accelerating things. He also could be *the one* smh idk. (---___---) How do you know when to just let the tide take you and stop fighting it? I wasnt expecting to fall into something so fast.
- Just roll with it and enjoy the ride! Good luck!thumb_screws
- December was last year... so it's been a year. Ride the wave.Gnash
- really don't think there is a guide line for this. just do whatever feels right.pango
- Slow and steady wins the race (aka, don't lose yourself too soon).robotron3k
- I had a girl move in with me within three months of starting going out. biggest mistake I ever made - we're still together 5 years later.Nairn
- @Gnash: December was only two months ago ...Continuity
- i think it's different for everyone, and there's no hard/fast answers to that question. If the feeling is there, pursue it, nurture it, and don't be afraidexador1
- to trust your instincts. I met my wife when I was 21, and she had just turned 19. We were both in university, working at a theme park together at the same time.exador1
- and (for me) i just knew she was the one. Almost instantly. I just knew. That was 26 years ago now.exador1
- 6 and a half years of dating, now now this summer will be our 20th wedding anniversary.exador1
- my advice would be to trust yourself, and go with your instincts. and TAKE THE TIME!... no need to rush into anything, take the time to truly get to know himexador1
- What Nairn said.imbecile
- My wife tells me she knew within days of meeting that we were meant to be, that was 16 years ago. Just go for it, all in, life is for the living, etc. ;)zarkonite
- this rise is nice but if u quickly break up and it happens again i would be more worried cuz thats a weird pattern. wutbot_02
- My wife had this rule that she would never live with someone until she was engaged... It seemed silly to me, but I guess it worked because she got a ringmonNom
- out of it!.
It pays to be a little hard to get. People don't value what they don't have to work for.monNom - Just do what feels good. There's enough shit around us to limit the good things that come to us. Flow. Xosea_sea
- Also, sorry to break it to you, but "the one" can turn into the 2 or 3. That idea we only find one person screws with our heads. Just flow and have a good time.sea_sea
- monNom: I disagree, I love free shit! The easier the better. This life is short, and you only get one, so there's no time to waste with protocol IMHO.zarkonite
- Sea Sea you're 1000% right.shellie
- whatever you do - its the right way for you. you will find out if you walk your path. hope it works out for you and he feels the same like you.api
- ultimately it's about both of you finding each other in the same heart space. what works now might not later and vice versa enjoy the good things, be happy. <3sea_sea
- does he have steak subscription?pango
- I was single less than a month when I met my wife who I’ve been with almost a decade. You never know!noRGB
- your wife noCMYK?pango
- what a great problem to have :) if he's the one, he'll stick around even if you take your time.sarahfailin