OKCUPID?
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- Weyland0
I've had tons of fun on okcupid, including a really hot american married lady tourist who just wanted to bang and still sends pictures, never really followed up on any crazy chicks, never had major drama. OKC is decent and well made
- pango0
Just met a girl who describes her self as a skank.
Jackpot!!! :D
Love em self aware skank!!- Be careful.freedom
- Lol I don't live here. No way she know where I live.pango
- the mermaid?ohhhhhsnap
- Different onepango
- you skank.. ;)ohhhhhsnap
- where r u again?ohhhhhsnap
- visiting...ohhhhhsnap
- Taiwanpango
- ohhhhhsnap0
I get a ton of likes but I wish I didn't have to shell out cash to see these guys.
- Frosty_spl0
I'm gonna quit dating all together. I've been on so many dates that go really well, never to see the girl again. And I don't overly text them afterwards or anything. Dates where I meet their friends and they all think I'm awesome, and I crash at their place at the end of the night, and don't have sex because I respect them.
- "and don't have sex because I respect them." That's you're problem right there. Realize they want it just as bad as you.IRNlun6
- yoreIRNlun6
- <ohhhhhsnap
- Sometimes chicks just want sex too. But don't expect a call back after that either.formed
- ohhhhhsnap0
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THAT WAS QUICK!
- cannonball19780
I met a chick on OkCupid whom later revealed she was a pro that needed online dating to find people with whom she could make meaningful connections with. Interesting date.
- utopian0
^^^
I met a hot-ass-looking-whack-nut-job bitch on match.com...
We went out on a dinner date and I wanted to leave "because she was a fucking nut job" I kindly said goodnight, thank you and good luck to her... She flipped out and started texting me for 12 hours straight... saying that she knew where I lived, and was going to "fucking blow up my house" she also mentioned that she knew what clubs I frequented and was going to have me put in a hospital.- I like this chick! she is just repeating things we've all said on here for years! JOKING, that sucks man.capn_ron
- match . com is a scary placeohhhhhsnap
- The World is a scary placedbloc
- Ianbolton0
I've been seeing someone from OKC for about 2 months now. She's fucking mental, but I kind of like that. She's an artist/school teacher and has a kid, but that's no big deal. And she's hot! I guess people join sites like that because they don't get the time to go out meeting new people, or can't be arsed stood in a stupid club talking nonsense to some 17 year old who's full of shit.
I've dated a few, but can't say any have been horrendous. People are generally decent. You can spot the ones who aren't. It'll become more natural eventually and everyone will be doing it, unless we all commit suicide from misunderstood loneliness!
- CygnusZero40
I would really only rely on these sites as a last resort, if youre extremely desperate and lonely. The issue is not exactly a lot of normal and attractive girls need to use a dating site. Every guy they meet everyday wants to be with them, you all know that. Just the nature of things. Girls do not have trouble meeting men anywhere they go.
Its usually the really overweight, unattractive and fucked up ones that cant even find a guy out in the real world so theyre on these sites and you know something must be up with them. There's always exceptions to the rule but they are pretty rare, and if you complain about a bad experience on one of those sites, or the girl didnt look like her pix or has some other issue going on you look kind of ridiculous.
Try to meet girls through friends you have. People that you know that know them. Express interest. Girls respond to it sometimes. Or go out and actually be like charming and funny with a random girl. Small talk, nothing creepy. Always the best way.
- I think this is bollocks. Plenty of cool, attractive people use dating sites these days.orrinward2
- Perhaps your profile just attracts the bottom-of-the-barrel crazies.orrinward2
- formed0
Online dating is no different than any other dating, not sure where this "look like you don't need online dating" crap comes from. There are plenty, just as many in the 'real' world', beautiful people online - it's the same people! Just a cross section of society, nothing more, nothing less.
Utopian - not sure who you are meeting...I've only met one woman that didn't look like her photo (actually, she just didn't smile in her photos...for a good reason), everyone else looked just like their photos. No one has lied about their age, weight, etc.
You do have to look at 'creative angles' or 'lack of photos'...but that's another discussion.Nice to a see a happy QBN couple!
- utopian0
Every woman that I met on OkCupid was a train wreck. Their profile photos were 5-10 years old, they lied about their age, and just about everything else listed in their profile. And besides that, OkCupid places a lot of fake profiles to lure unsuspecting and or naive men into their site. More than likely the same thing happens on all of these online dating websites.
I would have to admit, it was fun for the first few weeks...
- First girl I met up with looked at me and said "I fucking hate dogs" I walked straight out of the bar. I mean WTF I have a dog, why write me?GM278
- dog...why write me you idiot?GM278
- I met a girl on match.com had to file a restraining order.utopian
- HAHAHA WTF?? Now that's got to be a story!GM278
- wow, you need to filter them betterMilan
- mekk0
^ I hear you, absolutely! I had a rough breakup not so long ago that made me move a bit away and be by myself. Started cycling more and caring less for work. I'm down to earth again and met a good girl last november. :)
- Sweet! Sometimes you just need a break and hit the reset button. Everything happens in it's own time.GM278
- GM2780
^ To answer mekk as to why we did online dating: (sorry for the bump, way too long to answer on the side)
My wife simply had just recently moved here from New Zealand and didn't know anyone here.
As for me, I had a bad break up with someone that really deceived me a few years prior. In the time that followed I had a somewhat self imposed exile from socializing. I divided my personal time between my dog, wrenching on my motorcycles and racing (which keeps me out of the city most weekends during the on season anyway).
I wasn't really looking to date anyone when I signed up for OKC. I was looking to meet interesting people and get myself out of the garage and back into society before I turned into a grease covered hobbit. (I should note I wasn't a complete shut in and worked in an office with co-workers) Having never tried it before, it seemed like a good way to vet people. You need to be able to read between the lines on someone's profile and sort through the BS. Its not always what someone says but how they say it that paints a picture of who they are.
- GM2780
I signed up for okc having never tired online dating before. I went on a couple of casual dates and was pretty over it. They weren't horrible but nothing spectacular either. On the day I decided to pull the plug on my online dating experiment I ended up chatting up this woman and she asked if I'd like to meet up later that nite for drinks.
We ended up dating for two years and have been married for almost three. I'm not sure of the success rate stats of the online dating sites but I do know I'm pretty lucky.
(Yes, actually us)
- nice, you look like u make a good couple!Milan
- you both look like you really don't need online dating, what made you sign up?mekk
- I think I've seen you around at assorted greaser-related eventscannonball1978
- <possibly, I do work on vintage motorcycles.GM278
- Thanks Milan. I like to think so also.GM278
- Borderline Hipsters.utopian
- I love you to, UtopianGM278
- Nothing wrong with hipsters, unless you live in Brooklyn.utopian
- You look awesome,
my sone will probably point and say Minnie :)GeorgesIV - Hell no man, 16 years in my sweet LES hole in the wall.GM278
- Thanks George, she does like her ears.GM278
- btw - your wife is cute:)utopian
- Thank youGM278
- I would hit it.utopian
- congrats GM. good story right there.capn_ron
- Utopian, she's taken but has cute friends. Thanks Ron.GM278
- ohhhhhsnap0
nb what is wrong with JS?
- formed0
It is all the same, each site is just a sliver and cross section of society. There isn't a "better" site, it is all just luck.
Hot chicks get every guys email and usually just delete 90% because they have no time to sift through hundreds.
You just have to keep sending emails, assume that 99% of what you send won't get read.
Anyone that says "Never drinks" is a fake profile. For some reason, the fake ones seem to always put that. Oh, and they are "God fearing"....even if it wasn't a fake profile, those'd be reasons to avoid anyway!
- mydo0
I dated an awesome chick i met there.
Out of the grubby pit of internet dating, OKC seems to be the best.