OKCUPID?
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- Frosty_spl0
^ this. Just talk about common interests, music, food, whatever. Being a little self deprecating works too.
Just don't be all "yo ass look sexy in yo pics gurl."
- capn_ron0
you gotta read the profile and just toss out anything that the mentioned that interested or affects you. I have gone on dates because we like the same food or music and I have also gone on dates because i told a girl that we could never be friends based on being 99% enemy on OKC.
- dconstrukt0
i hear okcupid is a good site... what do you guys send the girls initially to get responses?
- futuremongolian0
try it out, I used it for about a month before meeting a girl in reality. Some people have luck with it. But the only girls I ever met off it were fucking snoresville.
- capn_ron0
Yeah, the movie thing is totally counter productive. You can't even talk during a movie. I'm lucky enough to have a lot of cool stuff to walk around here in San Diego, so it was always easy to get that free first date out of the way and get to know the girl. Most of the time it started as a walk somewhere and then led to a couple drinks.
- Frosty_spl0
I like free stuff on the first date. A walk around the park was my go-to. Or maybe meet up for coffee.
Do something besides movie and dinner.
- capn_ron0
I tried to do more fun stuff like walk around a bayfront or check out an art exhibit. Some were cool with just drinks, but I think the majority understand if you don't want to shell out a lot of money to have a first introduction. Plus, dinner gets a bit stuffy if you are really compatible and you are forcing conversation.
- newuser0
Also, do a lot of girls want to get dinner like a traditional date, or are more open to something more fun?
- capn_ron0
Been on there. Met some really cool girls on there. Met a couple not so good ones, but no real horror stories. Out of the ones I met they were all pretty cute too. I did have to do the pursuing mostly, but that is normal.
- Frosty_spl0
And yea you have to pursue them.
- Frosty_spl0
I used it. I met a lot of girls from there, and only a few were crazy. It seems to be filled with big girls who have cute faces though.
Go for it.
- The USA or that site?qTime
- This thread is about the site, not the USA qTimemonospaced
- hah @ the us comment.akrok
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- newuser
I'm single again. Seems to be a popular site.
Anyone on here use it? Do attractive women actually reach out? Or do you have to approach them?