Divorce
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- Llyod
Who here is divorced and hates their ex? Was the hatred a gradual thing or what? Explain.
- CALLES0
did you saw her asshole and divorced?
- ********0
stick a spiked dildo up your ass.
fornicate with it.
shit all over the keyboard.
then repeat.
- i_monk0
Divorce is ruining marriage for gays.
- Like two bitchy men can live together in peace.Llyod
- they have a better chance than 1 bitchy girlmstocks
- I suspect your average gay couple has more in common than your average hetero couple! lolMondoMorphic
- they just argue over who gets to hide the sausage on any given night.Llyod
- clearThoughts0
I'm in the process of... been married for 5 years, separated for 2.
We had to wait some time to be able to be friends again, at least a year.Most important thing is to stay in the best terms. Otherwise it will be 10 times harder.
- MondoMorphic0
Divorce brings out the worst in people, and it's not like you're divorcing somebody you really like to begin with. Off the top of my though, you might really start to hate them when they attempt to take full custody of your children or rob you blind (beyond what state law dictates).
- SrSamaurai0
Bill Gates is happily married. Microsoft will bring you happiness. Follow in the steps of Bill Gates. Bill Gates. Bill Gates.
- frankosonik0
Been through it. We chose to use a mediator and do the divorce ourselves, rather than litigate. Attorneys are only there to complicate the process. They stir up shit on purpose, only to increase their billable hours. They're not at all interested in seeing anyone happy. If you can stand it, it's best to work on it together. We saved thousands of dollars.
There are many times when I can't stand the thought of her, but I'm sure the feelings are mutual. Life goes on. The best revenge is to make a life for yourself that totally kicks ass.
- I hope you are dating women that are much happier and hotter than the ex was.SrSamaurai
- Hell yes. Paying a lot to my ex, but I'm certainly making up for it.frankosonik
- foobaz0
While I don't hate my ex-wife, I made a decision to *try* to never talk to her again. Divorce is horrible and painful and can stay with you for a very, very long time. In my case I was just glad we didn't have children (after 8 years of marriage and 11 years together that's a miracle) because I can only imagine how hard that makes splitting up.
I think every single divorce is different. There are simply too many variables to tie a nice, simple bow around anyones experience.
Like I said, I don't hate my ex, but it's painful to even see her. She didn't cheat (that I'm aware of and want to believe) but what did happen was she and I both changed (not together), she kept her feelings from me and out of nowhere said she wanted to live her own life, do her own thing, and pursue a new career. Cheating isn't the only way to make a person feel badly or carry resentment. In my case I felt blindsided, shocked, and betrayed. Because of that, we can't be friends - we tried, really - it was simply too hard for me.
Everything ends badly, otherwise it wouldn't end *
* Yes, I just quoted the movie cocktail. You're welcome.
- "Everything ends badly, otherwise it wouldn't end."
That includes the movie Cocktail.dopepope - <<< Hahaha. Yessir.foobaz
- you spoke like it was me. it was almost identical.. no kids, together 11 years married 8 oie-pill
- however my ex and i arent enemies, nor are we buddy buddy but we do still talk..e-pill
- "Everything ends badly, otherwise it wouldn't end."
- scarabin0
just stop marrying people, guys
it's awesome, trust me
- frankosonik0
Exactly. Don't get married. Marriage is the #1 cause of divorce.
- doktornomore0
Been through the process twice - once with kids, 10 year relationship, once without, another ten year deal - former was fucking nasty, latter was easy. Time heals all wounds - be patient and honest with yourself and you'll make out fine.
- sea_sea0
divorce sucks, it's like a friken death. in my case i knew it wasn't going to work 2 years into the relationship, even then i stayed for a total of 5 to try and make it work. by then i was happy to see him go, and signed my final papers on a valentines day.
